Here are some signs I’ve noticed can you tell me If I’m being blind and dumb? He doesn’t show as much interest anymore in me overall. He doesn’t do anything special with me at all besides general communication stuff (he will call me everyday but seems like a chore). He doesn’t want to get together or ask to see me. He goes out with his friends but doesn’t have time to go out with me. In fact he has time for everyone but me. Last week he said he was too busy with work but then a friend needed him to drive him to the airport (3 hour round trip) and he did it. But I asked if we could have lunch or dinner and he said he had zero time. BUT he still tells me he loves me. Am I crazy for putting my efforts into him?

i was in a similar situation in my last relationship. i gave way more than him, and one day I just had enough of waiting around for him to do something nice for me. i broke it off, and i can tell you that i'm happier without him because I'm not constantly thinking about all the things he should be doing for me such as spending time with me.