If someone doesn't want to spend time with you that is a huge red flag. When two people both love each other, they will want to see each other. I like to think of love as a magnet. It's a strong pull, but it should be an equal thing. You probably need to have a conversation and move on if she is no longer into the relationship. It will be a tough talk but it's necessary. The hardest part of a relationship is when it ends, and one person is no longer interested but the other person is. It's hard for the person in love to say goodbye. I've been in this position before and I can still remember how painful it is. *hugs*