On Adult Friend Finder just wondering if I pay for a gold membership if other regular free standard members will be able to contact me? I read the review and couldn't find the answer.

It's only worth it if all members can contact me not just other paying ones.

I know this is old, but Google brought me here so I'm gonna answer this so other people see it.

Gold/Premium lets you message other people, not the other way around. You can pay extra for a feature that does let anyone message you after you upgrade.

They say on their website you need to pay for standard members to message you or reply. But wait....
I joined paid as a gold member and did get replies from my messages but guess who replied? AFF scammers!!!
It was only scammers who replied to my messages as gold. Now think about it. If scammers can reply without paying and fake pics and real people can't cos you never paid extra for standard members to reply or message, what does that tell you about the integrity of AFF?? The sites is fake and the webmasters are in full control of what goes on. I complained with nothing in return, their not interested but will be when we spread our experiences in numbers Stay away and don't upgrade.

They say on their website you need to pay for standard members to message you or reply. But wait....
I joined paid as a gold member and did get replies from my messages but guess who replied? AFF scammers!!!
It was only scammers who replied to my messages as a paid gold member only. Now think about it. If scammers can reply without paying with fake pics and real people can't cos you never paid extra for standard members to reply or message, what does that tell you about the integrity of AFF?? The sites is fake and the webmasters are in full control of what goes on. I complained with nothing in return, their not interested but will be when we spread our experiences in numbers Stay away and don't upgrade.