A buddy showed me some very good looking women that he was conversing with on Searchingforsex.com. He was pretty excited about the possibility of a hookup.
Well he had already dropped a hundred on a vanilla card(thank God) and was planning another. Told him he was crazy but he was going ahead anyway. So I told him to give me his login as i wanted to monitor his account.
Well it became obvious very soon that the good looking or very sexy women were catfishers, scams. They wanted to hear his fantacies, asked short single questions to elicit credit paid responses.
After multiple chats "The ultimate question" we asked is what neighborhood of they live in to see if a hookup was feasible. 14 out of 15 wouldn't divulge it until they got to "know you better" on the site. They didnt know the city at all.
As he started to ask if they could meet in a public place their tone changed to defensive and again would need to "know you better." They wouldnt switch to email or phone.
Now as a control we contacted a few very unattractive women. They were real and paying for credits.
Moral of the research..save your money Searchingforsex.com is not legit for the attractive girls.
This site has only been around for just over a year and is based in the UK and Germany.
Is a scam.

Most hook up sites are scams. They employ women to reply to men's messages, my friend does this job, getting paid 15p per message. That's why they never phone you, even after weeks/months of messaging - and you'll certainly never get a real life meeting. Every message you send to her will be answered by a different woman (employee) who gets to see all your previous messages so the conversation is consistent. Save your money.

I went on the site just to check out the profiles and realized that they were all the same profiles from a sex dating site that I had been on before. That site was Fuckdate.com. I had been on it for a few months chatting with about 30 different women but never got to meet any of them because they did not have time or were too "busy" or wanted to know me better. One of them did tell me what area of the city she lived in after giving me a couple of other locations. As well, some of them said they were developing feelings for me. But then again, were not able to meet me.