I just want people's opinion on this and how men view this versus women.

Scenario 1:
You have a gf/bf of more than 1 year. You fall in love with someone else.
Do you breakup and go for the new person?
Do you cheat first partner until you've secured a solid connection with new lover?

Why?

Scenario 2:
You are dating a girl/guy and find out he/she is cheating on a partner who've been together for more than 1 year.
Do you break up?
Accept the cheater as is?
Force them to choose one?

Why?

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Also, please share what you think men and women in general would do in these situations, not just your personal opinion.

Thanks.

The only ethical thing to do is to break up with your current partner if you love someone else. This would free your partner to find someone else who loved him or her.

As far as cheating is concerned, if someone cheats with you, they'll be more inclined to cheat on you. The smart thing to do is to protect yourself and break up with the cheater.