I'm a 51 year old professional male living in Los Angeles. I'm in decent shape and reasonably good looking and sane. Over the years I've tried numerous dating sites without luck. I'm coming to the conclusion none of these sites really work for finding casual-sex minded ladies who are looking for FWB, NSA encounters, but I've not tried any in recent years. Has anyone had success finding decent sexual partners from dating sites?

Most 'adult' hook-up sites are scams. The companies that own them employ women to reply to messages. I have a friend who does this job, working from home and getting paid per message she answers. You will never get anyone's phone number, let alone a real life meeting no matter how many weeks or months you message each other.

if you cant find a woman in LA you wont find 1 anywhere as they should be plentiful there ,,face to face is your only answer ,,get out in public and chat to anyone