In six months time I have gotten absolutely no dates from eharmony !! However I simultaneously joined OurTime online dating app and during the same time span I have had many dates with some really nice guys... as a matter of fact I have been dating a man I met on our time for the last 3 months and things are going fabulous !!! The problem with eHarmony was all the matches they sent me were either really far away or really ugly. Don't get me wrong I don't judge a book by its cover but geez come on I'm not looking for a euchre partner I'm looking for someone I'm attracted to inside and outside !!! And there was one guy I was talking to on eHarmony even though he was far away from me and come to find out he was a scam and was removed from the site !!!! So thanks eHarmony for taking almost $300 of my money for nothing !!!!