ok I joined up and sent about 20 winks to members, every one of those I got an instant reply from.

now a 100% hit rate on a site that will not let me read the supposed message unless I sign up with credit card sounds very fishy.

so I wrote to them and asked for proof these replies were genuine. I asked them to give me access to just one message. they always replied with gobbledegook nonsense like they didn't understand what I was saying.

stay clear of this mob, very dodgy.

Its a notification to tell you your wink has been sent, its not a message from the member, so don't worry you don't have to upgrade your account just carry on looking at the pretty pictures