I've been subscribed to this site for some four months now and it's been a total waste of time. Get lots of 'winks', but when I try and contact the women immediatley afterwards, I get a message saying their filters have stopped me messaging them. Or their account has been deactivated. I've never had a message directed at me solely, just general messages sent to everybody. Again, when I try and contact them, I get the message about their filters stopping me despite me apparently fitting everything they're looking for. The site appears genuine, but it's not worked for me. Anybody had any luck with it?