You are SOOO right about IwantU being a scam. After perusing some of the other sites, I can see that they use some of the same pop-up IM's names & pics as other sites. All of them computerized messages with the EXACT same wording VERBATIM over and over again. Most of these sites are scams just to get you to join and et ahold of your credit card number. And when you try to discontinue billing by them.......well, good luck, if you still have anything in your account once they get your number!!