Evow is okay but it doesn't compete well with POF even if it is free to use on your phone through the Evow app, at least it was a few months ago, I am not sure now as I removed it from my phone.

Evow is very similar to eHarmony but eHarmony has many more members. If you are thinking about joining Evow you might as well join eHarmony instead or better yet just stick with POF.

Nicely said
Where were u or men like u when I was one the site. I do have to agree with a few of the Ladies. Most were jerks an even racists just because u didn't accept their advances. Sad.

Ok one comment thou.. My looks r ok , I look after my self but I don't want meeting Men my age who r out of shape.

both sites are worth a flying f - - -

The older men and women get, the more of them end up out of shape. The older you are, the harder it is to stay lean because the body wants to cushion the bones more to protect bones that are softening and prone to slower healing when broken.

As the number of lean and "healthy" looking individuals decreases with age, those individuals are able to justify higher expectations from prospective romantic/sexual partners. Good ol' "supply and demand".

Something to consider.

Well I used to be on PoF, Wow... It taught me alot of women play games so I found evow and I was thinking that with a smaller base of people more would be serious... So far what I have gotten is either alot of drama from psycho women(wow do I have stories about these) or games from women that only respond with a word or two, I am still on there with a hidden profile and only willing to talk to one girl at a time, I am honest and up front but I feel like as soon as you really show your interested that they have had their fun and move on... Just yesterday infact this happened, I mean I dont drink or go to bars and I have become anti social due to how people treat each other... What are even my other options? Can't go up to someone on the street or you get treated like as they say as a creeper.
On top of things when you contact the support on this site saying hey this person is a player they ignore it showing the whole them caring to make this site legit is BS, Im 33 and dont want to spend my spare time getting played with women over a website, Even had one that all she wanted to do is sext as I believe its called and tease, When I actually tried to meet her POOF no more contact.
I am also aware alot of girls wouldn't know a nice guy if he stopped an asshole from beating the *censored* out of her, Dating sites are making women lazy because they just want to play games or they want the perfect guy (an asshole) or that chemistry attraction which is lust and not love.

I have watched evow for a few weeks now, There are girls on there who are there everyday all day! And they claim to look for a relationship... Well I decided to find out what the game was with these "women" and realized that none of them are serious about a relationship and love to play games, One girl I talked to and even met fits this profile... She has 3 kids, claims her ex raped and beat her... Sad story I know but then she decides it is ok to make me so frustrated by only talking to me when we argue which is pointless I told her she deserved what she got if this is how she treats people... If her story were true she wouldn't be on there, BTW not that looks is my thing but her pictures show a redhead, chubby with a nice rack. In truth when I met her she looked nothing like any of her pictures and I am pretty convinced that she had herpes or really bad skin! which once again of course do not show in her profile picks, I have read some of the comments in this forum from women and they really surprise me how ignorantly shallow they are, Looking for a very specific thing... Yes ladies we call this kinda guy an ahole. Are you really too dumb to figure that out? Girls love to play games on there from the lets text a few times and then Ill ignore you to that Hey I want to get to know you better before we text... WOW, This screams games, Simple fact is and half decent girl on that site kinda has to be playing games or they would have no need for that site. As above if you are looking for chemistry you are looking for sex not love, I am not going to pay for a site simply because I dont support prostitution and that is exactly what you are doing! There are nice guys and girls on there I am sure. Chances are they will over look each other for some stupid reason. Sad things are coming to this.

"Sad story I know but then she decides it is ok to make me so frustrated by only talking to me when we argue which is pointless I told her she deserved what she got if this is how she treats people"

WOW! And you consider yourself to be one of the "nice" guys. Unbelievable. I'm a single, 29 year old woman who happened to stumble upon this thread. I have to say the resent and anger towards women a lot of posters seem to have is remarkable. I've been out with my share of creeps, game players and psychos but I'm able to recognize that as the behavior of individuals not representative of men as whole. You all really need to let go of your bitterness and stop generalizing if you want to have any success in relationships. There are good women out there who are looking to meet kind, respectful men. But women are also much smarter than you give them credit for and they can probably sense from your texts and conversations that you're the type to write them off as shallow, teases, or prostitutes if things don't go your way. They aren't playing games, they just aren't interested in dealing with your baggage.

My point is dating is hard for everyone: men, women, gay or straight. If you let go of your anger and your expectations, you will have a lot more fun with it. Enjoying life, possessing confidence and patience are extremely attractive qualities. Bitterness, resentment and an underlying mistrust of others = not so attractive.

everybody blames the websites... its not the site people, it the folks on it that you are disappointed with. you meet a butthole in walmart. you dont go blaming the whole company for do you? the same folks you meet and talk to on these sites are the same folk you meet out in the streets,

I am on POF and EVow.....I am a decent women and do not play games but that seems to be all I get from POF. I just joined EVow so I will see how that goes. POF has been somewhat interesting because I did meet someone on there a year and half ago and have found out that he is a bigamist, gambler and alcoholic. It took me for a lot of money. He used me and that is what he does to all women. He has been reported and taken off of POF. That is what we should be doing with the men and women that we find are not legitamite on POF reporting so that they are removed. Complaining here is not helping. We have to get them removed from the site. So that the men and women that are really trying to get into a relationship and are honest can actually find someone.

I have been on POF for years and have asked -- in my "description" that if I contact someone and they aren't interested -- to at least let me know -- so far--none have -- that tells me they are someone I don't want want to meet. Also, I don't put in a picture--and I'm sure these men all want the "high school prom queen" so no picture--no response -- (note: I was a runner up in a beauty contest in high school) and people still recognize me -- so I haven't changed that much). Lastly, they are all looking for something that needs to develop over time. At my age (70) all I want is someone to do things with -- if something develops fine--but these men think you will jump into bed with them right off the bat -- one guy I was e-mailing wanted to go on a cruise -- and thought he was "all that"--from what I could tell--he wasn't. As for e-vow--I can't get past the first page -- so have given up on that and have found most of the men on POF and in all the other dating sites too. I did meet one guy I thought was great -- and after 2 dates (he said there was no "spark" I found him on a site that was totally disgusting -- and he was looking for "alternative adventures." Good grief, the man is 72! Personally, I have given up.