I've used adultfriendfinder a few times over the last 5 or 6 years. It's been in spurts (no pun intended ) of a few months at at time and when I didn't have a girlfriend but wanted the perks of one.

It's a fun place for sure! Especially if you meet up with a few of the right people. Just like in real life you have to present yourself well on your profile on be outgoing in you communication.

I'm about to dive into it again since my girlfriend and I have broken up so I 'll let you all know how it goes this time around after a week or so.

Same here!!!

Adult Friend Finder is the only one that has real members on it. Even us ladies on the other sites seem to get a huge amount of scam profiles sending us messages. You would think the much larger male to female ratio we would get messages from real members.

Man, I am just an average divorced guy in my 50s who belongs to the middle class.

Why is it so difficult to figure out which website to use for hookups? I hear so many scam stories and even this forum topic is back and fourth on if these type of websites are worth it.

I am close to joining adult friend finder but I keep second guessing myself. Are these hookup sites easy to cancel if it doesn't go your way?

Doublelist.com is legit I’m about to give this chick I met off there back shots in about 40 minutes just gotta shower and shave this will be the second session lol

I find hookup dating site leads to endless swiping, ghosting, and shallow conversations that rarely translate into real-life encounters.

IMO the effort-to-reward ratio feels skewed—too much time spent messaging with too little payoff. I found what should be a straightforward process becomes a frustrating loop of small talk that goes no where.