As everyone else is saying and I have long suspected, AFF and all the other sites are using former member photos and profiles to lure you deeper. They are very sleazy people. I only join with a balance on a gift card. No way was I going to give a credit card and find out later that they continue taking money from the card. Funny, the earth has more people than ever before and yet, it's getting harder to find someone.

Joined with a degree of suspicion from…

Joined with a degree of suspicion from the start, I wasn't wrong.
Hand your money over great! They bombard you with alleged interested but fake profiles and algorithm bot message lines, with long pauses inbetween replies while the machine thinks of it's next response line to give you.
Short sentences, not a proper conversation cos bots can't make long conversations can they.
Some replies you could tell no one would say such things in that manner.
Lots of pictures of beauties from the states, Japan, and other exotic places, conveniently never very nearby, a dead giveaway, if you look up close.
I even got several garbled calls from a woman at 5pm on a few evenings, with what sounded like chickens clucking in the background, with an african sounding voice.
She was non committal about anything, proberly scripted lines they're taught to dish out to punters.
When I tried calling her several times on the number I was given, I got a foreign ringtone, and no answer.
Why governments allow such sites pedal this crap in their countries, begars belief.
This and dozens of East european sites, are getting away with fraudulant services, purporting to be genuine.
Scammers and fakes, shouldn't be allowed to operate.

AFF is a scam alright ,tons of emails from all over the world .bombarded by them
aint given em my card details

There are legit sites with legit people to meet for casual fun but a lot of them are Swingers and Kink sites. I am into BDSM and I joined a Site called The Cage which I am an inaugural member of so do not need to pay but in this site it is more of a community and theses are the sites you need to join. They usually have a low cost to belong and all the people on there are real as our moderators are brilliant at weeding out the fakes from the real people but you must peak the members on here interest and be willing to hold conversations that are free and do not rely on Paying with credits but once paid the fee you can talk freely to anyone. Also FET.com is similar you can chat for free and hook up but again you need to be kinky and willing to have a few conversations before meets. If you want instant meets without conversation then got to Adult work and book an escort but be prepared to pay our £100 plus for these. Never go on sites where you need to use credits for every single message sent (THESE ARE SCAMS ) the girls are not real and they will never meet but bleed your bank account dry. I met my Submissive Lady on The Cage. The Cage if you are interested in a kinky community you can find Dominant Women there, Submissive Women there, Couples, Singles into all types of kink but as I said do not go steaming in there asking for meet ups and sex immediately be prepared to hold a conversation.

none of them will let you put your phone number on your profile beacuse they want you to keep paying for years and never get a partner

you would get fixed up easy if your phone number was there for all to see


to keep their million $ empires running they need sucker for years and years never getting fixed up with a partner

I was checking one partcular web site to join with"local" girls in my residential area that it claims BUT seemed to redirect or block me and would not give the option to close the window and made me select to a different site as they wanted me to go thru the repetitive questions such as my age, their so called members privacy, etc. It was though you might try to sign up for one club but before that could happen, the other site or club would intercept or hijack you on to their website. This happened to me 4 times all ending with them attempting to get my credit card info but I refused all of them and decided to investigate further and wound up here. I think that most of these post here are correct about 99% of them being frauds. Think I'll take their advice.

Adult friend finder (aka passion) same site really and owners, is legit. Real people but if you’re uptight obviously don’t go there as nobody obviously will be interested in you for good reason. I found it’s mostly swingers but I got laid a few times with attractive, fun girls usually older women, but no complaints there. If you’re bi, bisexual playground is quite legit.

Pure seems to be legit. A bit pricey but it works. Tinder isn’t as great as it once was but at least a legit site with lonely bored housewives that are real. Best to go with other 3 imho. Outside of that good luck. I’m sure there must be some that are strictly sex and legit but I’m not aware of any.

vivastreet is the only site i have found that isnt a scam,, they use phones to communicate thus you can weed out the nigerian scammers by the country code ,but havent seen any so far ,as adverts are screened for legitamate numbers in your country to get your advert published

craigslist was ok till they banned personal ads

I tried Allure Matches so that I could reply to 10 women. The moment I paid my money there were no more women mailing me and out of the 10 that I replied to not one came back. Glad I only paid for a month and hope I can cancel before they charge my card again.

I think that all of the sites are scams.

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You are a woman. Of course you have no problems. There are 500 men to one woman on AFF