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2021/01/09 12:52pm

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I am 55 and fed up with these so called sites where you can always meet a woman.
That 's until you disclose you are 55 that 's when you discover that all the older women want young guys and young girls don 't do it with older guys.
Yet on the front cover everyone does it and there 's no bar.
All I want is to meet a married woman who is betwen 35 & 60 looking fior some funis that to much to ask.

Try a swingers site find a single to invite you to a club. If you can’t score in a swinger club, there is no hope for you.

Try fabswingers. That's a good website

2021/02/03 08:13pm

ILLUSION

Anonymous

No there really aren't. And if u do find a girl all they do is tell u to get on there webcam. Also my favorite is when u are talking to a girl for awhile ot seems like it's gonna work out. And than "but I need you to get verified" meaning cc. But how does a cc verify you anyway? There all *censored* and I've been ripped off on there everytime. And if u notice they take u to different sites but they jave same girls as last site. Once u pay money the girls u were talking to are gone. I always called these evil pricks and received my money back tho. F them

2021/02/08 12:34am

Anon2

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

This comes from a guy who has lost count of how many women I've pounded from online dating, so listen up. Your best -- no, your only option -- is to use legitimate dating sites. Not the hookup sites. List your intentions as long-term relationship, no matter how inaccurate that is. Have many good photos and write an interesting, grammatically correct profile. When texting with the woman, hint at your sex drive without overwhelming them with it. And no *censored* shots. The hints will screen out the prudes, while the nicely written profile will get you a higher caliber woman. Accept that forking out for that first date with no sex will likely be the price of getting regular sex down the road. Better than a membership with a fraud site. Wish I could give a clinic in this stuff. Good luck, gentlemen.

I don't believe his response because he will not tell you the names of the online dating sites he claimed to have pounded a lot women from and why would he say he pounded A lot of women on online dating sites and he don't even say the names of the online dating sites he pounded women from and I don't believe him

That’s pretty spurious reasoning 🙈 ..it actually sounds *beyond* legit - there’s only a handful of “legit” “dating” sites/apps - have you tried your luck with them?? If not, why take issue with someone’s input (actually rather well put at that) - if you’re not sure what sites he’s (plausibly) referring to, that might be something to look into (truly absurdly simple). I’ll save you much of “that” effort and tell you what was mentioned is almost certainly true from tinder to OkC to pof to bumble to “insert similar names here”. If you know what you’re doing, it’s nearly impossible to keep up with how many are always looking to contact/meet (and so on :p) - couldn’t even write this without several interruptions (not complaining

. Oh, and obviously helps immensely if you live in a large metropolis! ..then having good people skills (understandably not everyone does) and a good understanding of how to gain great interest from others does most of the work (it’s already been mentioned above and throughout what garners great “appeal”

Good luck - but casting doubt on true advice from others (with nothing to gain by sharing) ain’t likely to get you any further - just saying.

2021/02/11 01:49am

Rob

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

So, mydate got clever, no membership, free signup, you can see all the girls, they look like girls from your area, they know all the places.
Here is the catch, you buy coins. $2 for 2 messages.
All of a sudden all these girls want to chat.

Us men, as much as we have achieved, we can be a stupid bunch when we think with our "members".

Firmly a sceptic from here on out.

Same thing with hookupstop.com I should've known, but my dick brain got the best of me. Spent $30 on credits (need credits to send messages) asked two when they wanted to meet after decently long conversations. One just said "have to wait till it's safe, I promise I'm worth the wait." The other said "I'll have to check my schedule". All the while still responding to any other message I sent in a positive manner. The third, changed the subject altogether and got me sidetracked on another tangent. The fourth... I got tired of paying for credits, so my last one, I used it to ask if they would message me off the site like snapchat, text, etc... the response I got was... (word for word) "but this is the only place you can message me." I may be a horny, dumb bastard... but I ain't that stupid. Dont need to ask why. I already suspected my luck was going wayyyyy to good to be true. And same thing as someone else said, they know popular tv shows, covid restrictions, etc. A lot of current *censored*. It seems legit, but it's not.

2021/02/11 08:20am

bob

Anonymous

in the middle of a pandemic likely to be be few women looking or even answering your messages .a meet up could lead to a dose of covid and death
bangkok and thailand is deadly quiet to mongers

2021/02/13 12:25pm

Wiz Nasty

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Venting here with no real solution: It's really too bad that in this day and age the internet hasn't evolved to where we can actually find ligit hookup sites that aren't infested with scams or whores. I've been frustrated with this for years. Yes CL used to be manageable until they had to change and I actually talked to and met a couple of women and men on there.

I've also used and browsed POF for years. Through the years I've actually either talked to women on there or gone on a first date meetup. And I actually dated a couple of women from there for short periods. But it's also gotten worse. And since they updated their website there doesn't seem to be as many new women and the same old profiles that have been on there for years. So if I have one thing to add to the discussion it would be that POF has been the only one worthwhile. The rest of them are scams from what I've seen. I've fallen for signing up for sites but never put my credit card out there and I won't.

I wish real local internet forums would make a comeback for many reasons. The key word being local. This was where real people could talk and message each other for free and then choose to meet if they want. Not just to date or hookup but to make friends, hobbies, etc..

Yeah Ah-Hah! I remember it. Back when most people believed that A.O.L. was the internet.

2021/02/17 06:16am

Ernest

Anonymous

There are no legit sites period for online, All free sites have con artist trying to fleece the singles, Most paid sites which charge, charge the men but give the women two weeks free which opens the door wide open for con artists.

The will runs scams to I have no food for my kids can you send me a steam wallet prepaid card, to I got paid but i cant cash this money order, which is fake and generally they want you to transfer the money to their momma over seas which takes 30 days to clear international banks. mean while they gone and your stuck for the bad check.

Adult sites not only keep your account open after you ask for it to be deleted but have bots use them. so ten years later you are still a member of their community and so is any personal pics and info you posted.

Online dating is a con job for population control while fleecing your money. better off to join a porn site were members can chat for free. Would name a few sites but dont know what community standards are here.

2021/03/17 09:15am

Jeff

Anonymous

The only legit site I have found is Adult Friend Finder. It is by no means perfect and has its problems but is the only one I have had luck on multiple times over the last few years.

2021/04/26 08:23am

Vik

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

No. There isn't a single one out there. If a guy is over 50, he's too old and ignored and/or told no. This is because ALL women look at guys over 50 as used up, limpd***, "ED" infected, wrinkled up, gross, nasty, cradle robbing, sicko, perverted freaks of nature who should quit wasting the youngs guys airspace and die off for all they care.
Also, if a guy isn't hung so damn big that a horse would be ashamed and bury his head in a mountian of hay, then you're not worth the time of day. And the same goes for looks, ya better be a hot hollywood model, or you are deleted.........permanently.
Yet another thing. A guy, ESPECIALLY OVER 50, better be "$$ GENOROUS $$" and have fat, deep pockets crammed full of $$$$$$, otherwise women turn into ghosts. *(Last I remember I think that was called prostitution.)*

Ive tried to get a woman for 20yrs now, and this is what I encounter EVERYWHERE, every "site", in person, no matter who they are, where they are, maybe even the site they're on. This new "Doublelist" site is a stinking, laughable JOKE. The above described descriptions fit that site so very well. Craigslist, Backpage..........in person, it makes no difference. A guy better damn well meet "criteria" listed above or if not.....you'll find that you're ((guy or over 50yo)) gonna be thrown to the trashcan lions den.

I do not understand! why don't you visit the Victoria Club dating site! I am an adult and there are a lot of girls who want to chat. There are different girls. But with one I met and we talked but we hurried. And then I found the girl I want to marry now. But for now, I am preparing the documents. She is very beautiful. I do not see this as a problem

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