Sadly hop! It messes with you're head makes you feel bad about you're self and then angry .always read the the terms and conditions then you will see how these rats work and once they have got there money they are laugh ing at becous they are the ones with the girls and the speed boats it such a dreadful con you have to admirer its purity of evil

People everyone of the anonymous quotes in your messages works adult kid finder and fling. Don't get sucked onto there web. Reason I say it is, yes 20 years adult friend finder was the best thing ever. But recently joined AFF and paid a big fee and I don't know what happened to the site, but it's the worse site on the internet hands down. Watch pornhub, it FREE

So I'm just throwing this out there.... Some of the people posting here may be interested in each other, of course depending on preferences... So why dont we try to connect with each other and see if maybe it goes anywhere?? I mean the "sites" are for money, period!! But if any of yall would be interested in just chatting and seeing if there is any interest I'll go first and give my # out 3183060525 I mean I dont see where I'm losing anything and may gain some friends 😁

Shut up, your have no idea what your talking about, insult and judge people as if your someone special.

your best bet is craigslist as its free and you can keep on posting free so no card details handed over to be repetaed and robbed.anyone else NO NO NO

Adultfriendfinder is the best hookup adult site by far.

I've found plenty of real people who if you take the time to message and have a conversation with are more than willing to meet. It just takes some time.

I've meet 5 people on AFF this way.

I read all your posts and question myself why are you paying for dating??. Motherless and fetlife both are for free with lot of fetishes and lot of real kinky women and couples. Just need to be honest to fulfill profile with your darkest perversions and nude photos and you will always find someone who share your kinks... In 10 years I fucked around 100 women and around 50 couples mostly cuckold. I had some nice connections with married women. 2 years a had a girlfriend from fetlife also from my city. We broke because she was nimpho and wanted do screw ever tattooed guy or girl. Anyway my conclusion is simple: 1 never pay for sex. 2. be honest and be kinky. 3. more you try more success you will have. After I discovered motherless and fetlife I am not looking for girls in real life anymore because that way you'll have to speak with them going too drinks or unnecessary dates. Virtually you set your expectations and someone will always be compatible to you.

Venting here with no real solution: It's really too bad that in this day and age the internet hasn't evolved to where we can actually find ligit hookup sites that aren't infested with scams or whores. I've been frustrated with this for years. Yes CL used to be manageable until they had to change and I actually talked to and met a couple of women and men on there.

I've also used and browsed POF for years. Through the years I've actually either talked to women on there or gone on a first date meetup. And I actually dated a couple of women from there for short periods. But it's also gotten worse. And since they updated their website there doesn't seem to be as many new women and the same old profiles that have been on there for years. So if I have one thing to add to the discussion it would be that POF has been the only one worthwhile. The rest of them are scams from what I've seen. I've fallen for signing up for sites but never put my credit card out there and I won't.

I wish real local internet forums would make a comeback for many reasons. The key word being local. This was where real people could talk and message each other for free and then choose to meet if they want. Not just to date or hookup but to make friends, hobbies, etc..

Why hasn't anyone mentioned Doublelist? This has been my go to after CL. I've only met 1 guy on there so far, but I feel like the majority of profiles are real. As a black bbw woman, it can be hard to find white men on most sites. I ended our sexual meetups only because he wanted anal alot which is really not my thing. I think it's good for women and men.

Real sex contacts just full of fake profiles that tell you they live in towns they don’t and use google maps to answer questions you may ask about the town. Don’t be fooled by these sites they are a complete fraud and will bleed you dry