I used fling.com about 1 yr ago. I met several local girls. There are some "real" girls on there. However, according to them, the women pay nothing to join, only the men. Men out number the women at least 10 to 1. The women that are legit have there pick. There are a lot of "professional" girls trolling the site as well. They will chat you up, then hit you up for escort fees. I have had better luck with sexsearch.com although it is similar in demographics. You must be VERY persistant in order to filter through the BS. My estimation is that the real to BS ratio is about 1 to 12 or so. A lot of posers, escorts, scammers,spammers who knows wtf else. My opinion, not worth the money, but i have gotten laid quite a few times from both sites, so......it depends what getting laid is worth to you. Good luck.