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I was a forum moderator on benaughty some years back when the site had a forum.
This gave me the perk of free messaging with anyone on the site.

I originally started spending time on the site because of the forum. It was very lively with a lot of great characters.

So with the free messaging I was able to read and respond to contacts, and I would get a lot. Initially the excitement of seeing that lots of ladies in their 30s wanted to spend time with a guy in his 50s was fantastic. But mostly they all seemed to have very poor spelling and type in text-speak. They also seemed to have not read my profile.
After a while I changed my profile to give my height as 3'6" and weight as 18 stone.
That didn't seem to cool their interest.
Occasionally I'd end up chatting with one's who claimed to be from places I knew, but they never knew anything about these places.
The usual tactic was that they wanted me to communicate with them on another platform or email because they couldn't talk on the site. They were never clear why, but it was obvious.

I did report many obviously bogus profiles but they were never inactivated.

But back to the original question.

On the forum there were real people.
They had organised several Christmas parties and other social events. I had chance to go to a few social events. Met a lot of lovely people, some who are still Facebook friends, and some couples who had got together through the forum. Met a couple of ladies at the socials who were very sexually active, but unfortunately had decided they would not book up with forum members, or that's what they told me. Perhaps they were politely declining...

Did meet up with one of the forum members who had relocated to the UK. While we had a lovely time she was going through a lot of changes in her life and was not ready for a relationship.

So there can be real people on these sites, but beware the mantra, if it looks too good to be true, then it is too good to be true.
I also learnt to use Tineye on the photos that looked like models, to find these were usually lifted from the internet.

maybe someone should make a site that is real, no money , just real people on it, and yes i know it would be like 10 guys to 1 girl, only because girls are shy about asking for sex, its just a given, idk could work i guess lol

craigslist was just this until the scammers moved in and it became too toxic to operate

I think all or at least most of the sites have real and fake profiles on them. It's your job to figure out who is real and who is fake. I did find one site that I believe is all fake because you pay for messages not a membership. You get a few free messages at the beginning then have to pay after that. Of course I got replies from every message I sent and even bought 20 messages and told the girls I was talking to that Im almost out of messages and not buying any more so here is my cell number to text me. Not one of them would text me. They kept saying they want to chat on the site because they dont feel comfortable going off site. So that was it. I mean I've had girl give me their number st the drop of a hat so for all of them to say the same thing told me it was a scam to get you to buy messages. Site was called Maturesexmeet.

Now another site I've used is Onlinebootycall. I've actually had success there but there are still many fake profiles on there too. You just have to figure out which ones are real. Almost every one saying "looking for a man of any ethnicity and any body type within 250 miles of" where they say they're from is a fake profile. I have hooked up with 4 women on that site but have come across scammers and fakes as well. You just have to weed them out sadly.

Sites like 'MatureSexMeet' are total scams. The company that owns this site also run many other similar hook-up sites. They all work the same way - they employ women to answer messages. My friend actually does this job herself - she gets paid 15p per message she answers. You do this job working from home on phone or laptop. That's why regardless of how many weeks or months you've been exchanging messages with someone you will never even get her phone number, let alone an actual real life meeting. The messages will all be rather boring, short and generic and she won't be able to give you any information about the town she supposedly lives in because all the messages you get from 'her' are coming from different women anywhere in the country! It's a scam to keep men paying for credits as long as possible before the penny drops!

Sadly no there really isn't any that are that's because I believe the entire dating net work is run by organized crime the only ones that get the girls are the cigar smoking Russian Mafia dudes on there boat s in the Med you have to face the facts that what ever site you go on its all was going to have the same out come money done the drain and Zero *censored*! And you know what? That's just what was planned for you! Because by the time you realize you've been had its to late so you just leave because they are a thousand guys like you ready to be pissed on and they know it don't expect you're government to do anything about this the security forces they use them as incredibly useful information hubs on guns drugs and terrorism sadly its one of the biggest scams the world has ever seen. Be careful what you want? You might NOT just get it

THIS IS EXACTLY HOW IT WORKS, MY FRIEND IS ONE OF THESE MESSAGE ANSWERING PEOPLE IN AUS, 20c A MESSAGE.

USE LEGITMATE DATING SITES AND METHODS, OR GET SCAMMED. ITS THAT SIMPLE

I have been using dating sites for 20 years, so I thought I would add my two pennies worth.
The internet used to be user friendly, I met women quite easily and had sex quite easily too, now it has changed to a scammers paradise.
Only contact women without photos...
Why ? Think, who took the photograph ?
Score women on a 1 to 10 basis. 1 are the back of the bus and let all women down and 10 are stunning looking gold diggers. Aim for 6 and 7's or maybe a 5. Why ? They'd be grateful, which is just what you want.
Don't talk about sex in an introduction, say something they can reply to by reading their profile information.
No photo and no profile is an old slot withdrawn because the numpty who wrote the computer program did a bad job.
Avoid dating sites were you have to join before you can view profiles, see above.
To give you an an example I'm currently on Match, had a chat with some but not met anyone. They send an email saying 'you are on fire' and you have had in my case over 100 women viewing your profile, which suggests money is involved somewhere.
Another thing to watch out for is education, amazing how many women have Bachelors Degrees ! With a mundane job...
In essence ignore photos and read the spiel.
Remember women love sex, otherwise there would be no market for sex toys. Think about it, how many are aimed at men ?
One last thing if you do meet a women and have sex, stick your tongue and then fingers into her nether regions. Make her wet and you get a repeat date. Just satisfy yourself and you'll never hear from her again.

yes all run by russian crims on their luxury boats in Monaco where they cruise around out of control by the law

theyre all toxic now so dont give em your Card details to top up their piles of cash ,easiest scam known to man