Im sorry to hear about your bad experiences with fling my experience has been quite different. Yes I do vet the fake messages from fake members that come with the territory. Beautiful young girls that message you on this site are fake plain and simple. But if you take the time maybe lower the bar sorta speak you will get laid if you are a attractive guy and say the right things. I joined fling in 2008 and with in a month I had sex 3 women In my area 2 of them were very nice looking. Recently in 2014 and purchased a 2 day trial and hooked up with a sexy BBW that loves sex as much as I do. We have a geat thing going. Im just saying the women or out there on Fling. Fling shoild not guarantee that you will get laid. Getting laid depends on several factors, what you want. What you say, and how you look. Same as in life.