I'm sorry you all are having problems with the site. I am a standard member, female, and have honest profile. While I don't consider myself gorgeous, I am a pretty woman. I have meet, responded, and even hooked-up with a member. The site is what it is. Every dating site has spammers, but you have to weed through them. Having said that - as a female it is a little off putting to have a picture of a guys dick sent to you before you even see his face. I might be out there looking for sex, but still need a little warming up, so to say.
So all you that say it is a scam; I'm sorry for your bad experience, but I am a real woman, and using site as a standard member unpaid, and it is working just fine for me.