They were a good site until maybe about 2 months ago they started going downhill bad. Even before that they were making all kinds of changes. And not the kind members wanted. They even started a thread a while back asking about certain changes. They changed the way the page is when you log in, even though most people said not to. They also asked if they should allow 16 and 17 year olds to be members. Literally everyone said "no", even their own moderator. I was looking a few days ago at who was online, and lo and behold there was a 17 year old girl! This is going to be a show.....

Update: Now they take teenagers period!

They are trying to go head to head with myspace! A big joke. They don't seem to get that they are nothing like myspace and what teen would join a boring assed dating site? Comon! Would you have joined a dating site when you were a teen?

Given the adult nature of many of the discussions and groups, they may end up in a lot of trouble. And they think myspace is a haven for pedophiles.

I was thinking the exact same thing. They are trying to emulate MySpace. If they change so they don't allow the dirty talk/language, the site will become totally boring and drive away all the long-time people. If not, they could get in trouble. And, yeah, they're going to have to worry about perverts.

Besides that, they can't deal with adults without banning so many people, how are they going to deal with teenagers! LOL!!!!

Well, I've seen a certain member on csm who is supposingly married and he hones in on the young members...asks them to post pics of themselves drunk in the threads and he can't see that they are visibly disgusted by him.

He is so gross, he turns my stomach.

All the good people are leaving and all the bad ones are staying. The toilet is about to flush! Whooosssssshhhhhh!!!!!!

You know, I'm really sorry to see that things are that way. I really liked the format of the site and the way the forums worked. Too many sites have poorly designed forums.

True. But I like seeing.....ummmm... how should I put this..... "people with anal personalities" (if you know what I mean) get what's coming to them!