I am a women that is on that site! (a real women)
I took the time to read all the posts and see there is one complaint that should throw a flag to all men. A real women never makes the first move. You should always know that when a female that will do this she is either a paysite or employee regardless if it be this site or others. You also have to understand when you send an email to make the first move, a real women will almost take forever it seems like to answer. Reason for that is she gets hundreds of emails , smiles, chat invitations, etc., daily. It will take her awhile to answer. The second item I suggest is be patient!!
Wait at least 3-4 days to recontact her.
When you get a reply several hours later or a couple of days you will know this is a real person. Another item I might suggest is if you are invited to a site trust me, they are not true real women you are looking for. Real women looking for the same as you do not have webpages !!!!! Don't need them!!
Hopefully I have put some insight on all the men looking for a "real women", they do exist because I am one of them !
Good Luck in your search,
Ht