Honestly there are problems with ALL the sites, and it's a matter of what you are willing to put up with. You have to give these sites a try to see if it's a match for you. I was on wireclub for a while and it seemed sleezy. People were super friendly, then it went straight to dirty pics and hookups. But, if you are into this, wireclub is for you. See what I mean? My suggestion is try them out, no more than two at a time or you'll give yourself a headache.