I only tried one: Casual Granny. I was looking for older women so I could raw dog and not worry about pregnancies. Anyhow, lots of women on there have explicit photos. I signed up for free and messaged two of the women. Both replied! How often does that happen? Never. I read their messages, but I had to pay to reply. The way it works is that you buy message plans. The cheapest was $11.99 for 7 messages. I sent each of the women a few messages and then when I was about to use up my allotment, I asked them to email me instead. I figured that emailing is still very safe and anonymous. You can block anyone you don't like and don't even need your real name or age to make an account. I figured that the site would either block my address or the women would refuse to email me. That latter occurred. Both women claimed that they felt safer using the website. Well, it was obvious from there that it was a scam. As others have said, the company needs guys to keep sending messages otherwise they won't make any money. Otherwise, every guy would do like I did and try to get the women to email them instead of paying for messages. Well, I'm done with these sites.
I have tried AFF, Mature Sex Meet, Fetlife and BBWSexNet (which has changed from what it used to be). I also used Tagged.com. Out of all of these sites I had the most success on Tagged and then Fetlife. Which are both free. Mature sex meet is a 100% scam. AFF-never net anyone. A lot of game players. BBWSexNet was good but it’s gone...😢