I was a free Gold member there over a year ago. I think that this site is total BS all the way. Also, I think the people there, for the most part, are illiterates as well. Yesterday, I returned there for the purpose of signing up once again to see if things had changed but, after filling out everything, I was booted off with no alternatives of reentering the site. I have a feeling that it is no longer operateable at all.

I've had luck on AFF before just not this time. I was registered on it for 2008 and got laid twice. I recently decided after awhile of being so horny and board that I'd re-register on it but this time I'm getting way to much spam. Could be they don't have enough real people on it to respond to everyone so I'm thinking their using bots. they do have spammers as well who spare no expense to fish people to there site.

Although there are lots of bogus profiles on there i have spoken to lots of real people and banged a couple of them

Absolutely, totally bogus. While guys have to pay $149 for a gold acct, it is free for women if they put up a photo. They even admit using computer generated messages and "online emissaries" to enhance the users' experience. When you sign up for a free, basic acct, you are immediately bombarded by beautiful women who want to meet in person. Phony. You have to pay $149 to be able to read the messages and respond.

The messages from the women are very short; no real substance. My guess is that thousands of women in the Third World are paid by them to answer messages. When it is time for a date, they disappear. I am going to put up a profile as a 39 year old, unemployed, 5"2", 230 pound virgin, who smokes and belches and lives in his parents' basement. I will be you that I get responses from women who want to meet me.

I have hooked up with women on this site. I have meet up with three, but that was after talking to probably 70 different women. So your chances of meeting a real person is slim but possible.

Ok guys read this carefully. Sexsearch is a scam and I will prove it so please put your plastic back into your wallet and stop paying these scammers that want to take your hard earned money. Where do I start? Look at the profiles-all beautiful girls, hot and sensuous. Now ask yourself if these girls actually exist why on earth are they on a site looking for sex? they could have any guy they wanted. They are mostly early twenties and seemingly keen to get naked with you-I promise if you sign up and reply to them you will never hear from them again-simply because they don't exist. How do I know this? I put two profiles on and I was inundated with requests of wanting to meet in person from 22 year olds ( I am 45-very unlikely) The second profile I put on I specified I would not answer unless I got two emails from the same person so I knew they were genuine-I got no replies except the usual so and so has viewed your profile and so and so wants to meet in person but never two emails from the same girl this is because the software cannot recognise my request of wanting two emails thus provingthe girls don't exist. Yes you may hear stories of I met several girls off the site or girls saying we are genuine and my profile is real-these are from people at the site trying to dupe you-it is simple guys it is a complete scam. I am glad I wasn't fooled into parting with money but many have done so and then realised it is a con-please avoid this site.

I just made the mistake of joining this site. Fortunately I have not parted with any money. The terms and conditions in the FAQ that you can read before joining are completely different from what you find after you have joined. That is you CANNOT view profiles or read emails. That is false and misleading advertising.

Even before I have typed a single letter into my profile I had 4 emails. This is *censored*. Just does not happen in the real world. I also know that there is no way possible that the ratio of black to white women within 50 miles of me is anything like what sexsearch is showing me. There is no way that there are that many women online in that distance either. Most of the photos are just too good to be realistic etc, etc.

I could go on and on about how bogus this site is but what really jumped out at me was the total lack of disclosure of what happens when your three day trail membership expires. According to their terms and conditions it takes 5 days notice to end your membership.

People Stay away from this site.

54 years old and I have all these beautiful twenty somethings wanting to jump my bones without a pic being posted. And they all live within 100 miles.

Sureeeeeeeeeeeee.....I believe that.

My question is are there any sites out there that somebody knows that actually work? that isn't a scam, and you can actually find other guys and girls that are real, etc.

this place is a scam.. save your money youll never get anywhere with these women ita an scam in the highest degree