2013/11/30 08:33pm  
Oldnewbie
Anonymous
I have used Ashley Madison once and found a woman almost too quick. I thought it had to be a scam but after some NSA sex I will tell you, there are some real women on there. Not saying all are but it is real.
 2013/12/04 12:46am  
anon
Anonymous
read about it on Jezebel and signed up out of boredom.

of the first 100 search hits, more than 60 were fake profiles, identified by simply plugging profile pictures into Google Image Search. it's unknown whether these are being created by independent scammers, or whether the site itself creates them to give the illusion of activity. either way, it's dodgy.

further, they also have a loose relationship with the truth when it comes to billing - despite my declining their offer of recurring billing, they billed me anyway, illegally. that's currently in dispute resolution with Paypal, because they didn't reply to me directly.

steer clear of them. real scam, no value. they are sleazy as hell, and rely on their assumption that you'll be too ashamed to make a big noise about their unethical practices. they even take that so far as to charge you to delete your profile, which is essentially blackmail by implication.

total douchebags.
 2013/12/29 11:37pm  
Dang
Anonymous
I'm real and have been with AM for 2-3 month on and off . Yet it seems men aren’t real heheh. They'd say they’d like to meet but no babysitters or wife is sick etc. Now I honestly go there to kill time :-)

Men on AM just seem to want a drive thru sexual encounter that easy but I'm not one of those. I talked to some with similar intent.
 2014/01/01 05:16am  
rajen
Anonymous
Yes she is 100% scam.
 2014/01/10 08:38pm  
John
Anonymous
angry
Definitely a scam.

I joined as a basic member and made sure I unticked the resubscribe tickbox.
After I received a few emails the just said the same thing. 'lets chat' (these cost 5 credits) I looked into my history and in there hidden was my recurring cc payment details wtf. I am sure its just a 'bug' - yeah right. I have disabled that now, cleared my profile and abandoned the site.

I really hope they don't start using my credit card. gulp. what a fool. I don't need the stress. ps they charge 19 USD to close your profile.

 2014/03/29 04:22pm  
First Time here guy
Anonymous
Quote by: Anonymous


Of course its not a scam for women. with a 75:1 ration men to women, theres no need to scam women! *lol* The more women the site has, the better chance of guys paying and paying again. So because there are so little women around, they need to capture the interest of the paying customers, mainly the guys! Wink

One thing that GREATLY catches my attention is, There is a lot of good looking ladys on there with there face in plane view! (easy recognizable) You would think if you where married you would want to keep some discretion, wouldn't you? In my searches there (form my area) there was only one picture of a lady that fell below the average, how can that be? Only good looking ladys want affairs? Rolling Eyes

With that being said, Im sure the site is legit to a point. But remember, taking a horny guys money is easy when sex is involved. Razz



Very true and logical quote, really not scam for that rate of females, also other points Besides that their prices are ridiculous. Thank you for right points
 2014/04/09 11:10pm  
Anonymous woman
Anonymous
Ashley Madison is a horrible scam! Most men on there are in a bad marriage(so they say!) or they are looking for paramours and remain discrete because they are perverts and are losers! My advise is to stay away from that site as you can be physically assaulted or even worse drugged. Be very careful and be sure do get tested for HIV and syphilis if you have used unprotected sex.
 2014/04/14 11:35pm  
LeChatNoir
Anonymous
thoughtful
I'm a 'real' woman and have a profile on AM. I've responded to many messages and have met up with several men, a couple of who I even 'clicked' with. So, no, it's not a scam. Having said that, I'm sure there's a fair smattering of fake profiles on there for various reasons. For instance, I've been stalked by someone who created a profile very different to his original profile, obviously concocted purely for stalking purposes. Ashley Madison is like a microcosm of life; there will be some genuine people, some fakes, and some psychos. You have to use your good judgement and intuition to sort out which is which. I will never, for instance, meet up with someone until I've exchanged quite a few messages with them and have established some rapport. I can usually figure out by their profile and message writing style whether they're fake/dangerous or not......the psychos/dumbnuts tend to have a lot of spelling mistakes and grammatical errors Smile And the sex fiends usually have very sexualised profiles and alarming content in their messages. The ones just 'dipping their toe in the water' have nothing of substance in their profile and very brief messages. My intuition has proven me correct every time, and overall it's been a fun and positive experience for me......but I realise the odds are stacked in my favour being a woman on this site. Good luck out there!!
 2014/05/17 01:01pm  
coastal guy
Anonymous
silly
It used to be real about 4-5 yrs back and I had success back then. Now the percentage of fake women profiles is about 95%. They charge you credits to contact ladies (comes about $2-3 per contact). These are the fake scams I have seen so far:
1) Ladies indicate interest. You pay to contact them and then nothing.. Twisted
2) Often I will get replies or message from ladies at 2 AM in the morning. Then I look at their profile, and they have last logged on about 2-3 days back!
3) Ladies indicate interest. You pay to contact them. They actually give you an email and pictures. After 1-2 emails nothing...
4) New ladies profiles in my area. They wink at you. You pay and contact them. 2 days later they have moved about 100 miles away. Another week they have moved another 100 miles! Big Grin

Do not get me wrong. There are a few real women, but if you spend $50 contacting ladies, about $45 goes to these fake profiles.. I think AM likely promotes these fake profiles.
 2014/05/23 07:31pm  
brawnmeister
Anonymous
Quote by: Anonymous

I'm a 'real' woman and have a profile on AM. I've responded to many messages and have met up with several men, a couple of who I even 'clicked' with. So, no, it's not a scam. Having said that, I'm sure there's a fair smattering of fake profiles on there for various reasons. For instance, I've been stalked by someone who created a profile very different to his original profile, obviously concocted purely for stalking purposes. Ashley Madison is like a microcosm of life; there will be some genuine people, some fakes, and some psychos. You have to use your good judgement and intuition to sort out which is which. I will never, for instance, meet up with someone until I've exchanged quite a few messages with them and have established some rapport. I can usually figure out by their profile and message writing style whether they're fake/dangerous or not......the psychos/dumbnuts tend to have a lot of spelling mistakes and grammatical errors Smile And the sex fiends usually have very sexualised profiles and alarming content in their messages. The ones just 'dipping their toe in the water' have nothing of substance in their profile and very brief messages. My intuition has proven me correct every time, and overall it's been a fun and positive experience for me......but I realise the odds are stacked in my favour being a woman on this site. Good luck out there!!



Yeah, its so hard to be a guy and find a legitimate NSA. Why can't there be blog like this where pees can share info. I guess everything turns into cess pool eventually. It would be good to pick your brains tho....reply if you want to chat and see where it goes.

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