Hey Guys,

Specially ones in India,where you just cant have girl friends,dont get lured by fake photos and details in any of these dating sites..The main purpose of the sites is to make money by hook or crook......yeah they know ,the most attractive way is to post beautiful Model pics..and make u believe they live nextdoor.....better u approach a girl upfront than this SELF SEDUCTION!.....save money guys....and energy!

Im one of the girls on fling i have actually met a really kool guy on there and we hang out at least once i week idk what i guys are dealing with cuz i usually dont reply to alot of my messages but there are real girls on there im one of them

I am a woman, You say woman are bad so are the men? I was e-mailing a guy and he said he lived in California and he was on a business trip in Nigerga with his son and he was there on busness and after there for about 3 weeks he asked for 4000.00 dollars for a mistake they had made? Thank God I knew it was a hoax and didn't fall for it? I have learned not to go on any of these on computer or chat lines that ask for money? I would rather be single than fall for that bull *censored*.

I've been in that site before and yes it is a hoax, we were having a good chat and he even call me. Unfortunately he got some problem and asked me money. I told him i don't have money to send and then he send what things you have, you think you can pawned? I said i have laptop and he asked me to pawned the laptop and I refuse; then doubts keep into my mind that his intention was different and I never contacted him anymore.

sheesh you may be right but the Nigerien scam has been around for a long time but you also have to understand that these big sites do not filter their members so you do have to put up with alot of scammers Nigeria has scam farms it's a big business there so fling .com is not necessarily a scam but there are alot of people on the site that are so you have to sort them out

U GUYS ARE A BUNCH OF SAPS.. I'M A GOLD MEMBER AT FLING, AND U GOTTA BE DOING SOMETHING WRONG. TILL THIS DAY I HAVEN'T HIT UP WITH ANY CAM GIRLS THERE. THAT'S AT BENAUGHTY.COM.. BUT FLING IS KOOL. WHY ARE U GOING 2 TRY AND HIT ON A FEMALE WHO LOOKS LIKE A SUPER MODEL? GO FOR THE AVERAGE WOMAN, PLUMP, READ HER PROFILE, HOLLA AT HER, ESTABLISH A CHAT THAT'S RELEVANT. TAKE IT FROM ME. THIS WHOLE WEEK, I'VE BEEN FLINGING. PRIVATE PARTS ARE SORE. LMAO. SO STOP SPREADING BS JUST CAUSE U AIN'T GETTING NONE...

Oh come on!! Fling is SO Fake, and I can assure you, no one has ever met a female from that website. I have quite simple PROOF that is is fake... you see, I live in Florida, when I signed up for Fling, I put in my profile... FLORIDA, and lo an behold, all the profiles that come up were somewhat close to me...but now, as I sit here, I am on a business trip... in TEXAS, and looking at the SAME page I looked at... NOW shows all these same girls, but they are ALL in TEXAS... I DID NOT CHANGE ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!! It is simply using the IP address of my hotel, determining where I am, and putting what I want to see on my screen to sucker me into giving them my credit card... They are SO BUSTED!!!!! I DID NOT CHANGE MY PROFILE OR EVEN LOG ONTO FLING... I OPENED MY YAHOO EMAIL OUT HERE IN TEXAS, AND IT PUT THE SMALL TEXAS CITY WHERE MY HOTEL HAPPENS TO BE, AND SAID THESE LADIES WERE FROM THERE!!!!!!!!! IF it were a legitimate website like others that I am on, I would have to change my profile to view the ladies out here in Texas.. However, I DID NOT. now here's the thing... I did not even have to go onto the website... I just look in my in-box... if look at my yahoo mail folder out here in texas, it says the ladies are here in texas, now when I fly home with my laptop and open the SAME mail messages, the ladies are all magically in Florida...near the AIRPORT!! when I get home, over 2 hours away from the airport, WOW they are ALL near me THERE! The site is BS and is only purpose is to fill your mailbox with spam and try to steal your credit card... there is no other explanation for the way this behaves, the legitimate swinger sites my wife and I are on NEVER say we have been e-mailed by people who are near us when we have not changed our profile to reflect that we are now in a new area. Save your money, and if you already made the mistake of giving your credit card information to FLING, CALL YOUR BANK NOW!!!!!!!!!! Have your card turned off and a new card number issued to you, and DISPUTE THE CHARGES!!! they are NOT offering the service you think you signed up for, and do not deserve the money.

Real ripoff. Tried this just to see. Beware users and FLING.

Was a gold member a year ago and legitimately met 7 girls, 4 of them actually as good looking as their pics and still hang with a few of them to this day. Are there scammers, fake profiles and hookers.. of course... does Fling tweak things to get you to sign up.. probably... but there are thousands of legit cute and very cool girls on the site. You just need the street smarts and patience to sort them out. And yes of course if you are not too good looking to start with the odds of getting replied back from cute girls are slim.... it's not fantasy land... just a concentrated population of people interested in hooking up with the usual bad element. I recommend.

I signed up for fling but I didn't go pass the final step and pay. Now my e-mail is flooded with messages from fling saying I have many girls wanting to chat with me. Funny how I have to pay now to view these messages. I didn't even make a profile and all these girls still want to chat with me? I wish meeting women could only get easier.