I see it's been a while since you've posted, but I just want to ask if anyone here actually had success sticking to those “three rules” long-term? I’ve tried similar ideas in the past, but I always found it hard to keep a real connection going without slipping back into old patterns. Curious to hear how others handled that without overthinking things or getting burned out.
I went through something similar a while back and what helped me was focusing less on trying to impress and more on listening and joking around naturally. Confidence looks different for everyone, and sometimes just being real works better than trying to look smooth.
I also used sex việt to meet people who were more upfront about what they wanted, which made things less confusing.