I just love women who say those who ask should pay then admit they have NEVER asked.pathetic gold diggers.Oh well,one more person to avoid.Considering the high cost of living these days men should go on strike for awhile and make women find out how much entertainment costs today.
Guys,if you that cheap(sorry),why you date a women? Don't do it and save your money Or if you like to have a women by you -be ready for expences...Men is always should be a GENTELMEN .
Being a guy in his thirties I find I tend to pay for everything on most dates. Some woman do offer but I usually say don't worry about unless they press the issue.
I find if they press the issue it is a sign of the date not going well
I usually don't have another date with those people.
Guys,if you that cheap(sorry),why you date a women? Don't do it and save your money Or if you like to have a women by you -be ready for expences...Men is always should be a GENTELMEN .
I'm not sure what has happened to males of this generation. Here is something to think of : Chivalry is not dead. Dutch is for losers and the unemployed. If you fall into one of these two categories you are not disqualified but you should be honest and admit it. If you are not employed due to no fault of your own you will eventually land a position. If you highest ambition in life is to be a house husband admit it and be prouf of it.
The date iniator pays for the date. That means if you are a woman and you invite a man out you pay. If you are a man and you invite a woman out you pay.
That said in 34 years on this earth I have never asked a guy on a date. I truly believe in the mantra of the book of He's just not that into you. Trust me from experience if he truly is interested in you as a life partner he will not let you pay for a date. If he lets you pay for a date he likes you but not like he likes you as his forever partner/forever spouse/wife. If he lets you pay he likes you like a friend or like better than nothing.
Just My Honest Opinion
Unlike a previous poster, I do not believe that chivalry is dead. I still hold the car door for the lady, I walk on the left side and I pay for dinner. If something as small as the check is going to be an issue what will happen later when there are mortgage payments, doctor bills and that sort of thing?