I'm back with more information about AM for you. Now I've met many women from AM, and had soem nice affairs with a few. So I believe that AM is legit, but it's really a minefield for guys. Here are some more tips and insights for you.

With perseverance, patience, and good writng skills, you can indeed get women to follow up with you (they really are there, just very few compared to guys). Use all the tips I provided in my last two posts. I found that it's good to focus on about 5-6 candidates at a time, so you can keep track of things. Maybe one will end up in a meetup or date. If they don't respond after the first message, wait a few days and try again. Some of these women get too many emails and yours may get lost. Above all, keep all your interactions positive!

Most of the women want to take their time on this, so you may have to do messaging (emails or chat) for several weeks to build up trust and an online relationship (use your own email/chat). That's OK, it gives you a chance to take things easy and relax a little. That's why you want to work on 5-6 candidates at a time and don't get all worked up on any one candidate. Keep the conversation witty, and intelligent. If there is a real conversation going, you can start to bring up a few "sexy" topics, such as "Mmmm, I was thinking about those sexy eyes of yours today." You get the idea, keep it light and playful. But never do this until you have gotten a real online discourse going.

A few women want to get down to business quickly and meet right away, but I found that they are also the ones who conduct the meetups like job interviews. It's OK, just don't go to those meetups with anything to lose. Enjoy it, smile, and be willing to walk away from it.

If they meet you after an extended online conversation (over a few weeks), then they are more likely to be ready to accept you. You have a better chance in that situation, since they have invested in you by then.

Some women shared some of the things that other men have said to them. I must say I am impressed with how good some of those Lotharios are with their words! The can really put together some sweet, romantic *censored*! Your best bet is to keep the conversations short and witty, but try to sound intelligent. Definitely use spell check before sending!

Now of the women I have met, I have found that only about 10% are "A" level (7-10), truly cute (the kind I would normally go after). The others are a mix between "B" (5-6) and "C" (less than 5) level, ho-hum or worse. Imagine the married women (35+) you see at the grocery store and you'll get the idea. How many of these women get you excited? Many lie about their weight and use old photos. Are they liars, to be scorned? I don't think of it that way. They are just as insecure about themselves as anyone (men do the same thing). So keep in mind that you are working hard (and getting emotionally vexed) by women that are really very ordinary!

An interesting problem is that after all that hard work, trying to get a woman to commit to following up with you, you are psychologically hooked to try to take this as far as possible! It's weird. You end up working so hard on women you normally wouldn't even try to go after in the real world. So AM is a great site for average women to feel like princesses.

Finally, I hope that no matter what happens, you treat all your women with respect. It's tempting to get pissed off and send a nasty message or be rude when meeting someone. Remember, these are ordinary ladies in an unusual situation, not hot vixen ball-breakers!

Good luck, gentlemen!

As posted by Bob E; out of curiosity, I did the same thing, I am a guy and registered as a 38 year old married Asian lady wanting for extra fun outside my marriage.

Two minutes later, 4 guys sent me the private keys to their private photos, I managed to open them without asking me pay!!

There you go guys, try it yourself!!

Ashley Madison is part legitimate but mostly a scam. Here is how you can confirm it.

1. Open an account and try to meet women. I did hook up with a few but they were mainly hookers. I wish I had a nickel for every girl I wrote that I was hoping to get to know. I received hardly any replies from my initiated emails to these ladies. Now I am not bad looking in the least, and had photos that I made available.

2. When you close your account or let it get to zer0, that is when you will mysteriously receive some emails from women. You will not be able to view or reply to the emails unless you renew you membership.

Don't just believe me. You will see that many have the same experience. Statistically this proves that many of the profiles are fake and you are just wasted your time, hope and money with these service.

Maybe you guys should adjust your approach and stop sending photos of your dick in the first message. Or if you're a guy that's clearly spent the last 5 years of his life eating pizza and watching Macgyver re-runs, head down the gym and lose a few kilos. A little perspective would be nice.

I joined up just over a week ago with the most basic package. The first couple of messages I had were obvious lures (they were in a different country); who cares, you don't pay to read them anyway, so it's a blank slate. 8 days later and I've had 4 dates with different women and scored with 2 of them, and these were attractive 7-8s/10, and they even knew about the other dates! They're also genuine people that if you treat them with respect and a little honesty, are happy to continue seeing you because they're tired of dealing with bull*$&# from losers who send "Ooooh, baby, I can make you feel so gooood", in their opening statement.

It's not that there are no girls on there, they've just been bombarded with so much *censored* that they all have finely tuned *censored* detectors and won't reply to the oblivious knuckle-dragger. And guess what, the site is there to make money, so why state "They just want to make money with fake scams! Huuur" this like it's a revelation.

Actually keep being pathetic, it leaves us with more choice.

This site is definitely a rip off. I firmly believe that all the 'women' who have approached me and all those that I have approached seem to have fake profiles and I suspect that they are not even women!

The replies are probably sent by employees of the site and not female members. You would be better setting fire to your money. At least you can do that without wasting lots of time!

I've been on the site for 5 days, and I met a beautiful, sweet, sexy Latina woman in tight jeans last night for dinner and drinks. I'm very happy with the site!

Doesn't anybody read the Terms & Conditions of the contract it explicitly explains that the site is for entertainment & amusement and employees Ashley's Angels who are there to lead you along they also rebill you automatically so be careful but really it is a total fake so don't be an idiot waste your money and get your hopes up
MAYBE and i doubt it 1-2% of the womans ads might be true but likely anybody defending them is probably a shill. I spent days fantasizing and refining my profile and was surprised when I got Collect replys before they knew anything about me
The one positive thing is I got in shape to get ready for all the affairs I was about to have!
Fortunately as a skeptical NY'er I decided to read the contract - T&C before I spent any money.
They didn't get my money but they shattered all my dreams. Oh well had again but at least I warned you! Now back to working out - to relieve my frustration this time.
America Land of opportunity

$19 to delete your personal information - probably their biggest money maker

There may be real women on the site, but you are going to spend a small fortune finding them. Out of the shute they charges me ten points per message sent out (2 x 5), then 5 points each message you send back to someone if they do respond. If you buy the small package at $50, your are done the first ten minutes. Buy the Large package @ $250, and you could have fun for a couple of hours. I guess the whole purpose of this is to get screwed, so it works out pretty good in that respect!

Yeah this was the biggest shocker to me at first until I thought about it. Now I am not surprised since the site is all about cheating anyways.

I am not happy but paid it anyways.