Hello,

I wanted to let you all know that I've been using SexSearch.com since May haven't met one woman on the site. Also I was chatting with a few women yesterday and this morning I come into work very early and my account is disabled at SexSearch.com asking me to login into the site. When I tried to login, it said that my account wasn't valid. Go figure! Yes, I paid for the service! I have contacted customer service to see if they will respond to my request as to why my account was disabled. I can tell you that I wasn't rude or mean to anyone. I have a feeling that the people at Sex Search.com aren't women but men posing as women. I bet one of these women were a guy and when I didn't give out my email address and phone number to a woman posing as a guy they complained and disabled my account.

Guys, listen Sexseach.com I believe is also part of other companies like HotLocalsexdates.com but the fact that my account was disabled overnight tells you about the company. I know someone complained they had to, there is no reason why someone would disable an account unless you were totally mean. I remember sending an attachment to a woman giving my email address in the photo that is all I was doing nothing else. When using Sex Search in sending email through their system they have auto filter turned on, that is when I put my email address in the photo.

Now, I'm complaining to the credit card company and removing the charge.

Mr. McGarrett

Hello Everyone,

I wanted to let you know that this morning my profile was also disabled after chatting with guys online for 30 minutes, I sent a photo with my email address to this guy in Canada who I was communicating for the last three months with, I’m not sure if he turned me in but I can say that I was totally polite to these guys. Maybe I didn’t give my telephone number out and the guy got mad and complained. I don’t know, but I’ve been with SexSearch.com since April never had an issue with any of the guys and now I can’t even login to the web site. I wrote Sex Search Customer Service asking for an explanation as to why my account is shut down.

Does anyone really know why accounts get disabled at Sex Search? My Profile was real, I’m a very attractive woman but some of the guys are a bit out there with their fantasies. The point being, I was polite maybe one of the guys that I chatted with said, this woman is a scam I’m going to complain attitude.

What are the chances of having them reactivate my account or should I set up another account name with a different picture and profile name?

I’ve been reading a lot of your messages, one message caught my interest from WoFat who did an experiment last summer. After reading his message, seems that Sex Search has a way that if you have logged into the same computer, they match it with the IP Address of the machine. How else can you explain if the profile is real or not?

I wish that someone could really give us the inside information on what makes this company choose what profiles to keep and disable. Any insight that one of you can offer, please write your response.

Thank you for your time.

Lori

Hello,

Update on Sex Search. I have sent three messages as of Thursday, October 15, 2009 at 4:30 PM California time. They have never responded back to my issue. This company is a pig very unprofessional in the way they treat their clients. Its free for women, but not for men which I really believe guys you are getting burned and taken by this company. The DA or someone needs to sure this company, maybe the FBI should get involved in shutting down this company. I can tell you one thing, I didn't say or hurt anyone on the site and they won't even respond to me.

Warning !!! Don't sign up with SexSearch they treat a woman like dirt.

Thank you for allowing me to vent.

Lori

I'm glad i found this forum about sexsearch spam.until now i was starting to get sus about this.after reading some posts on here it is now clear that not only me that doubt about this.
i agree with you all.that site is total spam and hope they get caught soon!
i've wasted about A$100 on this crap!!

I got 3 days trial. I was online at 1:30 am Mountian time and got chat request from NC. She said she will show her p&^% video and need my rating 9 or 10. Huh? She must be paid to be a fake member teasing around with different pictures and profiles. Thanks to this site. I canceled it next day. $1.95 damage. I should have researched it first. Stupid me Don't waste your $$$ with SexSearch.com!!!

i just tried sex search.com after reading this and i did get replys from about 9 women 3 i got a reply from and 1 of them lived near me i got laid this works thanks.

Hello again from Lori,

Listen I figured out why I was cut off from SexSearch.com. I was communicating with a guy from Canada for about four months. After about the first month we were on a first name basis, I sent him my email address and found it was auto filtered out. I then sent him a code in my email address and he gave me some crap that he couldn’t figure it out. So I sent him another photo of me with my email address as the file name and attached the photo to the email. Still he kept emailing me at SexSearch. Then I sent him another nude photo of me with my email address attaching it to come through sexsearch.com email system. Still nothing, he kept sending to SexSearch email.
So, this time I sent him another photo this time with a big wave showing my email address in red embedded into the photo. The next day I got locked out from my profile and Sex Search.com wouldn’t respond back to me or give me any reason why.

I know for a fact it’s the guy from Canada, because the only other tow people it could be was in a chat, they liked me a lot we talked for two hours, they were from NY and PA very nice guys. No it’s the guy from Canada.

Word of WARNING GUYS: I believe that some of the guys who work for SEX SEARCH.com are in fact spies on the site just like the guy from Canada. Why would a guy from Canada spend four months communicating with me then band me off the site? Because he either complained that it was spam, or he was a spy who was working for SexSeach. I also believe that once they band the person from the site they in fact will use the photos to make you join. When I was on the site I had a total of 3500 emails, I received 35 per day then dropped a little bit, when on-line talking to they guys I would get 12 IM’s or even more. My computer almost froze. Since girls don’t have to pay its free for us. Men get screwed.

Anyway, I’m in the process of creating a new profile and will go back on SexSearch to seek out the guy from Canada. I know who he is and what the picture looks like.

Take care,

Lori

It is a scam no doubt as soon as subscription is running out u get all these mails .

Yes, this site is a big scam. Bottom line is sex sells so scammers will take advantage of that. Also this site sends a clear sexual message - so why anybody would be looking for a girlfriend on here is beyond me? There are three sites I have had success on but you first need to know what you are looking for. A girlfriend, a one night stand or fulfilling a fantasy? For a girlfriend, Match.com works but you will have to "play the game". which means numerous dates, many dissapointments, and much money spent trying. One night stands can be had on AdultFriendFinder .com. This site is more mixed bag but again very sexual in nature. Here too you will have to deal with let downs and people dissapearing after exchanging a few emails. To fulfill a fantasy, Backpage.com is a 100% guaranteed bullseye. Yes "donations" are required but the women are hot, for real and you will easily get what you are looking for here. The reality is nothing in life is for free, and more so when it comes to sex and relationships. Bottom line is dreamers dream and waste time. Do'ers do whatever it takes to get the job done. Good luck all.

This post was obviously for the guys. Sorry ladies. I know more guys usually become victims in these sex scams vs. women and it can be quite frustrating. I know I was. Maybe too I was a little off topic here but I wanted to share some better, more positive alternatives instead off just repaeat bashing of a site many are already upset with! Guy's not joking..Backpage.com is for real! But like anything else - be careful and follow your gut feelings. Again, I hope I was helpful.