I just signed up and paid membership. Yes its a SCAM!! I messaged a girl...and she asked what i was doing on Richmen.com. I thought WTF...I'm not on that site. Turns out...."Fling" uses your profile on different "site". So...most of the women are logged into Richmen.com (looking for rich dudes)...and the guys are logged into Fling. They can see each other's profiles. I've never even heard of Richmen.com ...so out of curiosity I tried logging into it with my Fling name.....YEP...my account works there too!!!!

SCAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

fling was not fake until a few months ago. i have been with them for a year met some real people, but over the last few months fling has become part of a scam to mislead and trick people of the sites rich men.com and fling.com

As a fling member i can make contact with any woman on fling, but now most of the girls i approach reply saying they are on rich men.com looking for a rich man they did not sign up to fling.

I tested this by using my login on Rich men.com (a site i have never signed up to) and i realised the the 2 sites are actually the same site.

Fling is being used to mislead members of rich men into there are lots of members .

so all you women looking to find Mr Money all your going to find is horny men looking for a fling no rich men

And men looking for a genuine girl all your going to find is gold diggers.

I no longer can find real flings on there as most of the new girls only want me for financial reasons, so i am ending my membership.

Fling used to be a good site, i will rejoin when they separate the 2 unrelated sites.

Do not join rich men or fling until they can be honest

Same go's for the site just hook up.com. Stay away...just a scam!!! No real girls and, just automated replys.

I can honestly say that Fling.com IS NOT FAKE.I have been a member on there for over 2 years and i have met 3 guys face to face from there and have exchanged phone numbers and emails with others.I have several friends on my friends list there and they are all completely real.

Well hate to be the odd ball... FLING IS A REAL SITE MEET LOCAL LOCAL GET IT ive bn on fling for a couple years nw .. n true missed alot of connection nt cuz of the site but the ppl who were playing games... alot of ppl on there want to live out their wildest fantasy but they chicken out and alot of ppl on there doooo their thing and well. I have had alot of success wit the site..I guess it all depends on where u r lookin.. If u lookin to Wife up or date them u r truly on the wrong site an even if that works out remember where u got them from FLING GO FIGURE!!! SMOOCHES

-i have to disagree, fling.com isn't fake.. i have been a member since 2009 & have never payed a single penny.. maybe I'm missing out on some "perks" I don't know. But my experience has been fair nonetheless. And have had had a couple of real & good flings come from it.. (;

Unfortunately, I finally decided to sign up to the site about three months after I first registered. The most annoying thing was that although it said that it cost about £7 a month they took the whole amount out of my account in one go which was highly inconvenient as I was taken over my overdraft limit and incurred charges. As for my experience, I was exchanging emails with a girl from Russia until she finally requested that I give her 700 euros for a plane ticket to England, yeah right.

How stupid do they think we are, the positive responses could very well be genuine but they could also be from the scammers themselves don't get easily sucked in. I'm gonna stay on and use the site - very cautiously - as I've already paid the full amount but noone will get another penny out of me until I at least meet someone in person.

I have been on fling for awhile and I have met 13 girls off the site. You just can't fall for the scam from girls that want you to go to different sites. Once you see how they work you can ignore them. Also from experience you might have to message 50-60 girls until you get a response. The real girls play hard ball and make you feel that they don't want sex but that is not the case. You just have to be real and not fake and do a meet and greet first to see if there is a connection. Again don't fall for the scams but there are real sexy hot girls to meet and it has been worth 24 bucks to meet them. Without the site I would of never met these girls. Also if the girls you are messaging are the hottest girls on the site that's where you are going wrong. That's where the scammers come out. So be patient. I can tell you from experience that it pays off big time. I have never had a bad experience. Just be smart. Treat the ladies how they would want you to. Have some charm and don't have *censored* pics posted on your profile. Major turn off from the ladies. Happy hunting!!

lol. more men that dont know whats going on. gee i wrote to a woman and she didnt respond. dahhh. i have been a member for quite a while now. im just a average joe but i have a brain. i have met 16 women in the last 9 months. i still see several of them. they tell me the same story. men are *censored* and dont know how to talk to women. i wonder why i have so much luck. hummmmm. try being nice!