"Great, so what you're saying is.. you were payed to post that. Thanks for the eHarmony plug. Big Grin"

HAHAHAHAHA!!

theyre all fakes run by criminals as that is the norm now

No, no and no.
Lost enough money. Should have read here first.

Please run away from Adult Friend Finder and LovesFlirt.

I did meet two people on 121 dating and had sex with one over a period. Didn't fancy the second one. Maybe that one is genuine or I was just lucky.

My advice now is to leg it.

I wish I was here earlier, I would like everyone to read this.

I would like to inform you all of a great way to tell if someone is pretending to be someone else online. Its free and you don't download anything, all you do is use Google.
1. Right click the image and you'll see an option to Copy Image URL, copy that.
- If you can't right click, you can take a screenshot of the image instead. Make sure its cropped to the person's face.
2. Go to the Google Images main page, to the right of the search bar there is a little camera icon.
3. Click that, choose Search by URL and paste that image. I think there is an option to upload the screenshot saved on your computer if you did that.
You will be able to see every time that same image is used in Google's database. You can also look for visually similar images with Google.

If the person is famous on many other websites you can tell something is wrong. This doesn't always work of course if they are a private model or whatever but it doesnt hurt to take a look around to see what you can find. Im not sure if this will come in handy for sex scam sites or dating websites but this might be helpful to know in general.

NOTE- 'k' key not good- using c or C- same sound.
I've struck out 95% of the time online and in person due to lack of confidence. I am better than average in look's, funny- but lack confidence.
THE GAME- a dating bible. RETOOL YOURSELF!:
The Prey- hot women- w/ the magic t*ts and vag- 10 minutes in bar, party, social event, THEY have choice of 10 dongs- 30 minutes later- getting plowed. So why go online to get lied to, BSed? Just pick one out- see what your getting. So Online we find: Hotties w/ Kids, fetish, rebound, busy professional, nemph(1/1000), wild hair u luck out, recent return to scene and no wing girl, and.... Tier Two- homely, over-weight, socially inept, occasional girl next door, mom w/ Kids needs new husband, etc.. but most of us are Tier 2- SO- clean, nice, overweight is good enough and have to work harder so usually more skilled sexually. Some of the hottest are the lamest in bed- they don't have to try.
>>Craigslist-99.9% ads to pull you to their BS website or cam. But- .5% are real- start studying- you will learn to tell real from prostitutes and website cams. Spot the genuine ones- will get snaked once in a while, that's fine.
>>Trade- I got chicC- a professional, to come after her eve at 6am and next day via trade. Risked health, freedom, $...but I was horney, but not again- was very interesting and NASTY good.
>>POF- same retreads, got bored.
>>connectingsingles.com- nice new variety.
>>The Game, a book on how to get dates in person, or online... written by a Gobber, learned the craft- could get laid 90% if time using the skill's taught in the book. There are other similar book's- written by PUA Pick Up Artists.
Axiom One- NEVER step outside your house unless you look the best you can- clean, groomed, neat, smell nice, white teeth, etc... be the person any woman would do- women want fresh, clean, nicely dressed. Break this axiom if you want to become a professional Master Baiter. Quit crying if not getting laid if you break Axiom ONE. Second- you have to overcome the fear of approaching a beautiful woman, alone, spur of moment- maybe walk up from behind, OH- here- this lent was on your shoulder- or is this your pet??? Lint from your pocket really- apply dialog, comments, questions, remark's, etc from the book... you act as if pressed for time- quickens the conversation, I got to run, but I enjoyed this....want to trade numbers and pick this up later.... or some other canned conversation is used..... That is my two cents- no need for change. Good Luck- ALWAYS TREAT EVERY women, hot or not, thin or fat, hideous or worst, breasts or not, tall or small, able or handicapped, whatever- EXACTLY how you would want your MOTHER or SISTER treated- guaranteed, she will have a friend that will suck your eyes out of your head or the chrome off the trailer hitch....RESPECT, Kindness, pays! Plus she will talk you UP, you being talked UP will now get you noticed and fondness will be felt for you before the game starts.....Respect and Kindness splits the sheets...
>>There is a book dedicated to online dating- you turn your hunt into a factory Mill, 10 men to 1 chicC- how to overcome this by technique and volume.

been on CL for years and never found a genuine corespondant .its all taken over by nigerians .in every sub forum ... now given up on CL

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Nothing could be further from the truth ... it is not free to be on AFF but it is a pretty good site to meet women for intimate fun. I was a paid member for a year and met 15, slept with 12 women ... some once, some several times for months.

Now, if you think you're gonna throw a couple dick pics up and have women lining up, you're out of your mind. Not saying there aren't "enthusiastic" women there, but its simply not that easy ever. Put a little time in, buy a couple drinks, etc ... you'll get all the P you can possibly handle.

My partner and I have met many lovely women on AFF. However, the fakes do outnumber the real ones by a wide margin, and the male:female ratio is FAR worse than 10:1. It's more like 75:1.


General rules:

* Genuine couples will do better on sites like AFF (and its many sister sites like alt.com etc).

* Couples looking for other couples will fare the best out of anyone.

* Many times, even "real" couple profiles are in fact just the guy screwing around. The female half mysteriously never is there.

* NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER pay for a membership on these sites. AFF is totally usable with a free membership.

* I forget if I mentioned this already: NEVER give them your credit card number.

* Always insist on webcam chat with everyone on the profile (i.e. for couples, all 4 of you should be present on the cam chat). If the other person "doesn't have a cam", or "can't get their cam to work with this site", (seriously???) or "my wife was called to work suddenly".....these are fake/scammers, block them immediately.

* Use TinEye or Google image search to weed out obvious fakes. Be aware that they have gotten much better with cropping and altering photos, etc, and many times the search engines still can't find any matches on obvious fake photos.

* When we were on AFF my partner and I had a "blocked user" list that was literally 4 pages long. Use this feature of the site.

* NEVER GIVE THEM YOUR CREDIT CARD!!

Good luck, but in all honesty you're best bet is to go out to swing clubs, pay the charge as a single male, be polite, respectful, well-groomed, and sincere, and you will have more success than on an "adult dating" web site.

I haven't found any, if you are not sure on a sex hook up site, or a dating site, go to scam busters, & they will give you some information, on what ever sites you are interested in.

As for Snap2Date, this is a total scam,
It says that you can communicate with people on there, but they prevent you from actually arranging, any kind of hookup with the person you want to have sex with. U need to look at the terms policy in detail, & take a bit of time reading what it says.
I nearly fell for it,
After reading the reviews on the app, I downloaded it, then went to sign up, & read the terms.
And that's when I found out It was a scam website & app.