Well I have been a member since March and what a rip off this site has proved to be. If you do get a reply, which is rare your lucky to get maybe one or two messages and then?..........Nothing!!!!!! The profiles show the girls always active within 24 hours but once you have had 1 to 2 messages you never get any reply. Itseems that if you do not enter for a few days you then get messages but once you do sign in and respond the girls no longer reply, this has happened on 17 to 18 occasions. Forget trying to message people near you. You never get a reply. I feel very bad about the experience and the fact they have my money. What a mug I was! I have also tried two other sites with the same experience, Sex in the UK and Adult Friend Finder. Any one who says the above is great must be working for them.

I noticed when that "sign up" chick comes on the screen that everyone is located within 50 miles from me. After searching the site, I saw several that actually lives 1500 miles away. This is definitely a scam site!

DO NOT JOIN this site. These sites are totally bogus sites that only intend to prey on the emotions of those that are lonely and eager for affection. You'll notice that every girl's profile is nearly identical, that most have only one picture, and that their responses to your letters are exactly the same - "Oh yes I would love to meet up with you too but I think we need to get better acquainted before that can be possible." A note that is purely intended to string you along. If you ask for an additional photo, you'll never get it because that girl that you think you are writing to is really some computer geek that cuts and pastes the same notes to every guy that writes a letter to a girl posted on that site.
I would recommend that you go to the traditional match sites, or Plenty of Fish if you would like to meet a real girl, and not get hustled out of your money by the slime that set up sexsearch.com. Just think about it, since when has an attractive girl needed to search the internet in order to get laid. After all, a girl can get laid just by waving at a guy, and certainly doesn't need to resort to some nameless dude on a sleazy site where she has no idea whom it is she is getting involved with. DON'T GET RIPPED OFF - AVOID SEX SEARCH sites. They are a total lie!

Their website is hosted in Ontario, Canada, so I wonder if their company is there too?

ive been a member of sexsearch.com for like a week or two. i find talking to people interesting. but, check this out. its easy to get frustrated when i get a message and im pretty sure its bs. but i send one back anyways. so when i search out a chick and email her, maybe she blows off the message because she feels the same way. also, we ALL can lose interest or gain interest in something else. and forget about what we once liked. women seem to do that alot. try keeping your messages brief, throw in something they might enjoy hearing, END IT WITH A QUESTION THAT ALSO REVEALS SOMETHING THEY MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN ANSWERING. its people skills. if im real and i joined the site, im sure there are other real people too.

I have been on the site for quite some time now and I can tell you for a fact that this site is a total scam. They have fake profiles of hot girls that continually hit you up to meet in person or set up a date and then you never hear from them again. I get hit up at least 5 times a week by young hot females that say they want to have sex and after stringing you along for a while you never hear back from them. Having experience on Adult Friend Finder and other related sites I can say that this site is a complete scam and should be avoided. The same goes for Flirt.com. Both of these sites are spoofed with fake ids of hot girls that hit on you so you'll keep paying the monthly fees. Save your money and time and stay away from both of these sites..

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I am usually faster noticing stuff of this nature. This is not that long so please read the whole thing. I used to work for a think tank. It hit me last night before going to bed right after coming home from a bar. And here is what I noticed hit me about this site.
Only a few woman from this site have contacted me from in this area. And they are naturally all over weight. One contacted me from Kansas, but she was too old. One from Hobbs but way too tall. All the rest which are the kind of women I prefer... Contacted me from Sweetwater and Plainveiw. All of them. None from Odessa. None from Big Springs or Stanton. None from Lubbock which has the highest population of women aside from Odessa in the region due to Tech and Odessa has a college or university.
When I search, I can see San Antonio girls pop up, but not Austin! Both are the same distance and yet both are more than 250 miles away from Midland. SO, I checked who is viewing me. Almost all are from San Antonio, Sweetwater and Plainview. A few odd balls from Hobbs and Lubbock.
I have driven through both Sweetwater and Plainview. There is nothing there. Plain view is close to Lubbock but Sweet water is close to nothing. That's a lot of stunning ladies living in two very small towns that have hardly any culture to them. Also, the ladies from both those two towns, don't write letters. All have been one sentence messages. So my question is, whats going on?
Also, you will notice the people advocating on the blog. Notice how simple they wrote in a one liner. The "thank you Sex Search!" Now, I don't know about all of you guys out there, but My bull*censored* meter is showing at the max for the whole thing.