I was kind of leary about this site, got a message and a few visits to my profile (all these women were very attractive by the way), and after reading the warnings fling.com took their advice. If something doesn't seem right it probably isn't. I did not feel safe giving a card with no safety symbols anywhere, googled transaction processing solutions, the only symbol that was displayed, and could not find it anywhere. Thanks to everyone here that confirmed my suspicions. Good luck.

thank you google - I had a strong feeling both sex search and fling were scams - I'm glad I was able to confirm this feeling in about 2 minutes with a simple google search.

what was suspicious for me(besides the flurry of email responses from women 5 minutes after I signed up even though I hadn't even posted a picture) is that you are not able to do local searches or look at profiles without paying. I mean I can't contact the women without paying the site anyways so why not let me drool all over myself looking at all the profiles - more incentive to sign up right? That is, assuming the profiles are convincingly real upon scrutiny which I'm guessing they aren't.

I met a few "Real" people on fling.com. Didn't pay for services. Set up a free account and met people in my area. I have friends that have did the same.

I believe there is some scammage going on here...but yet I got my fling on a few times from this site.Gotta step up your game..lol ny

I first went on Fling in December 2007 and at that time it was saturated with cam girls and "girls" trying to entice guys to sign up to other sites [which was certainly not what the people who run Fling wanted!]. However, amid all the dross there were a few golden nuggets - genuine women looking for anything from a one nighter to marriage and babies. Unfortunately, most of the genuine women seemed to be in the US, while London seemed to be full of scammers. I rejoined Fling in January 2009 and found it a lot cleaner. The cam girls and scammers seem to have gone, and everyone who's responded to me has been genuine, as have the few I've actually got to meet. One thing you have to remember from the women's point of view is that they get flooded with really nasty messages from guys, real full on crap from the the first message, so it's not surprising if a lot of women just don't respond, even to a polite message. Another thing: look at the women doing video chatting. They're real, some of them give an amazing show as well as chat - and they don't charge for the privilege!

If you have any doubts about the girl's photo you should check it out to see where it came from. I use http://tineye.com It's a reverse check for photos. It compares the image not the file name. I use it almost every time I see a "just a bit too good to be true" photo. I looked up "keyra augustina" photo on google and loaded it on TinEye. I got 22 locations on the web for the exact same photo.

I can see why they use her photos - she does a lot of the "web cam " style of photos.

Ummmmmmmmmm to all those REAL people out there who use fling to meat REAL people IN THEIR AREA AND NOT OVERSEAS then the site is F**KING FANTASTIC. obviously something is going to be fishy when girls from a DIFFERENT COUNTRY chat you up on a website where you find LOCAL PEOPLE to hook up with and they want your credit card info. HOW GULLIBLE AND DESPERATE ARE YOU PEOPLE???????WHAT ARE YOU WIERDO UGLY AS* PERVERTS WHO CANT GET ANY ACTION IN YOUR OWN COUNTRY EVEN THINKING???????if your pathetic and desperate enough that your trying to hook up or have cyber sex or whatever you sick perverts do over the internet with girls that aren't even in your country do then you deserve to be f**ked over. TALK TO PEOPLE THAT LIVE IN YOUR AREA YOU DUMB, PATHETIC (and im assuming VERY ugly) WIERDOS. NOTICE THAT ALL YOU HAVE THE EXACT SAME COMPLAINT.........AND ALL OF YOU COMPLAIN THAT ITS GIRLS FROM A DIFFERENT COUNTRY...........IF YOU HAD MORE THAN 1 BRAIN CELL YOU WOULD FIGURE OUT THAT MAYBE GIRLS FROM A DIFFERENT COUNTRY ARENT THE ONES YOU SHOULD BE PERSUING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!so........like i said...........if youre so pathetic that you message girls from different countries on a site where youre supposed to find LOCAL singles so you can MEET THEM IN REAL LIFE then you f**kin wierdos deserve whatever you get

fling is one of the larger scams; all involved need prison time. Women do not post ads for sex on the internet. Think about it. eharmony.com, singles.net, craigslist personals, and adultfriendfinder are of course scams as well

I m taken to hear this cause i no people on the site that have connected and better yet,got laid.Im not even a member and Ive been thinking it over. Goodluck

well damn.. theres been a lot better reviews now.. idk im kinda thinkin it over too, but still not sure..