I joined the club a month and a half ago and it had less than 200 people, today I found out there is almost 5,000. I have seen many changes in the short time I have been on. Now for the tough part dating... I like the concept of the little people who tell me who will accept me at a glance. Dates, I have gone on one from the club and have been in contact with several, but I don't do distance well and they have been 100 miles away. I have made several friends and plan on visiting several over the next year, what a way to travel. Well I will be there for a year, regardless of if I find my soul mate or not, because the friends I have made are priceless. What impressed me most about the club is their eagerness to help me and out of all the dating sites I have joined and it has been several the one thing that amazed me the most, is when I actually talked to one of the owners in chat.