2021/08/04 11:10pm  
Anon99
Anonymous
This story is a horrible read. This is no longer a marriage. You get this? It’s over and time to step away from her and the way she treated you. There is nothing good about the marriage at all.
 2021/08/05 08:23pm  
Trent
Anonymous
Thank you to everyone who reached out privately as well. It’s good to know I have support out there. She is asking to try again and build our marriage back. I am staying firm that it is permanently broken. I am unable to feel any romantic feelings towards her or be intimate with her as a husband knowing she chose to go behind my back like she did. I can picture her in bed and it disgusts me. You can’t forgive those actions ever. I am also disgusted that she is “dirty” with an STD. god only knows what else is festering in her body after sex with these people. That door is closed between me and her. It’s about raising the kids and that is it. Still working on options.
 2021/08/08 06:25pm  
Curt79
Anonymous
Quote by: Anonymous

Thanks for the support. Current status is that I refuse to take her back knowing about her cheating past. Ironically she tested positive for an STD since my post! She didn’t tell me but I found the medication in the bathroom. I have even more proof of her actions, and know that she was having sex with someone in the last 3 months. She is sleeping in our bed and I’m sleeping in our spare bedroom permanently. I refuse to sleep in the same room with her and especially where she was having sex. I’m evaluating the best options for me and my children.



Stay strong my man. Don’t fall back in the trap.
 2021/08/15 10:22am  
Charles
Anonymous
I read your posts. Your story is my story almost exactly except I have two kids. I’m on the other side, divorced, happy, and she isn’t my problem. Life is better all around.
 2021/08/18 04:28pm  
UofNC
Anonymous
Quote by: Anonymous

I read your posts. Your story is my story almost exactly except I have two kids. I’m on the other side, divorced, happy, and she isn’t my problem. Life is better all around.



Please consider taking the UNC survey on divorce. I'll be posting the results of the survey after.
 2021/08/19 09:26pm  
KenJam
Anonymous
I could ALMOST forgive her for having sex with one man. Maybe It was a mistake or she was misguided once.

Multiple men is pure lack of respect, and a slap in your face over and over again. Be done. Kids or no kids.
 2021/08/29 03:20am  
Rick
Anonymous
I see a trend with cheating wives. Why do they have sex in the marital bed?
 2021/08/29 03:36am  
Rick
Anonymous
Another thing is that they use kids as a guilt trip to keep the husband around. Then they keep using them for the sake of the children. That’s sick.
 2021/09/05 07:37am  
Metalhead
Anonymous
Dude there is no reason to put up with that *censored*. Live better and without her.
 2021/09/11 07:21pm  
AnonDater
Anonymous
I just posted on another post about sleeping around when you are married. This is a case where she didn't tell you and you found out. Some people know about it beforehand but either way it is not going to ever be the same again you can forgive but you can never ever forget. if they can do it once, they can do it again. there is no remorse and it's a situation that will likey get worse over time.......

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