I’m not laughing. Some people are idiots for making this question into a joke. Sexual diseases are real and out there. If you have a sexual partner and have sex with them you now have had sex with everyone they had sex with. If your partner had a few partners before you, maybe they were selective and it’s not too bad. If your partner had dozens, well guess what? Many diseases can lay in remission and you’re now at risk. HPV can lay dormant for years and decades. Remember Michael Douglas and his throat cancer? Tons of examples like this. Getting tested and treated can break the cycle of active infections. Just do it. And quit the jokes please.

Completely private: https://www.letsgetchecked.com/

I was scared because i knew the people that I slept w weren't exclusive to me alone and the chances of me having caught something was pretty high which was stressful. I hated going to doctors for anything, and not for this kind of stuff which can be embarassing. This was a game changer: https://www.cvs.com/shop/home-health-care/home-tests/std-test >>>you go to the store, get a kit, and everything is done privately. To answer your question I now get tested before i have any new partners. This is PRIVATE and you should have no issues with people knowing your name or who you are.

i am so sorry u had to go thru this

This info is a lifesaver!!!!! Private, discreet.

@nnyleinnus ... don't feel judged for being tested or worry about ur local doctors' office. there are plenty of options besides cvs too. all major pharmacies have kits right in the store that u can purchase & get tested & sent to a private e-mail account. don't forget to notify your sexual partners of any infections to stop the spread of disease.

i just put a response to your other post and saw this. what if your husband reads this? does he know about this?

Did you know many STDs can be dormant in your body for years? If you have had unprotected sex with anyone you should get tested for herpes, clamidia, and hpv at minimum.