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2021/06/28 03:57pm

LRM007

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I’m sucking up a *censored* marriage with a *censored* husband for financial reasons. He makes a TON of money. DID I mention he makes a ton of money? At what point should I get the nerves to tell him to get the hell out of my life forever? I have two young kids btw. How should I prepare myself with money to be ok? How much can I get from him in the divorce? Stories and advise pls!!!

You clearly married the wrong person and given the way your posts are written, i bet your husband feels the same, if not more. Sometimes people make stupid choices that put them down a difficult path. This happens all the time, every day, to a sh!t ton of people. Sticking in a shitty marrage isn't healthy for the kids, or you, or your spouse. Neither is focusing on money. It is troublesome to read you say "how much can I get from him in the divorce?" Is that what's important? money? so you take all his money, and then do what with it? money will solve what? Guess what? I was a kid with parents like you. Trust me when I wished my parents would have found real relationships with other people instead of pretending. get on the right track; you're clearly on the wrong one and it's helping no one.

2021/07/01 06:59pm

OverRiverOHno

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

So. your new profile says separated so I guess the decision was made? Good decision. *thumbs up* message me if you want to talk.

2021/07/05 07:57pm

Tina_MarieTN44

Anonymous

The title of your post says "sticking it out for finances"???? You started this post talking about money. This is troublesome because it gives some insight into your character. You mention your kids next and briefly, then it's back on the $$$$.

You asked for stories and advice Money shouldn't ever be a factor in terms of trying to get it out of a spouse, or asking how much you can get out of someone before you divorce them. People matter. I searched on your username and read many of your other posts to see if I could learn more about you. They were eye opening. You seem very selfish and self-serving and attention seeking. My advice is for you to get some therapy to work through your issues. it's currently destructive behavior to you and everyone around you.

2021/07/20 08:24pm

Shanlynnae

Anonymous

I was once in a relationship where I thought I was stuck because I made less money but we lived together and had a shared place and bills. I thought there was no way I could leave. My sister sat me down and we added up all the things I bought each month that wasn’t a “need”. Fancy haircuts/dyes = $120. Fake acrylic nails - $75-100. Unnecessary clothes - $200. Fancy drinks - $50. Random concert tickets…..I could continue. Bottom line is that I spent so much money on crap that I could afford much more than I thought. Reevaluate your personal spending habits and you may realize the same.

2021/07/27 11:11pm

Jenny

Anonymous

Money is the root of all evil. Famous quote that is 100 percent true.

2021/08/07 11:44am

OverRiverOHno

Anonymous

So where are we at?

2021/08/07 12:25pm

Chris

Anonymous

Get a job. Learn to pay bills. Learn what a budget is. You don’t need anyone but you. You’re an adult woman.

2021/08/18 04:29pm

UofNC

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Please consider taking the UNC survey on divorce. Results will be shared on the original post. Thank you!

2021/08/18 11:21pm

8675309rockin

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

So where are we at?

she found out the hub is making major bank and wants to juice him b4 she serves him…. playin’ nice & laying low until things r down….. all about jingle.

2021/08/22 11:10pm

Urban

Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

So where are we at?

she found out the hub is making major bank and wants to juice him b4 she serves him…. playin’ nice & laying low until things r down….. all about jingle.

People like this make me mad bc they use people & are selfish and lazy. Milking should be a crime and I hope someone tells her (ex???)husband to watch his wallet bc she sure is.

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