How did you figure out is was a scam?

I've joined and so far it looks legit to me. I wish people would list why they think it is a scam instead of just posting it is which doesn't really help anyone.

Do you read the dateYou homepage?

It is a mess. Here is an example: "This is where hungry single hearts meet"

Never heard of hungry hearts before... I would watch out joining this site.

Dateyou.com = pathetic. Stay away! You will NEVER meet any of the women who appear in the pics. All they do is try to get you to spend $ to buy more coins. Complete BS. PLEASE don’t waste your time or $!!!!

TOTAL SCAM! I signed up and within minutes had dozens of women contacting me to chat or get together. I paid for $25 in coins and started to chat with a couple of them. After about an hour, my $$ was nearly gone. None of these girls was willing to chat free elsewhere. A couple days later I log in and have 60 message waiting. Girls I archived were back. Literally EVERY one of those girls showed as being online. Not one was offline or away! Stayed up late night and checked the site every couple hours. NONE of these girls EVER signed off!!!

Yes ... even buying a few coins didn't seem to work.

it's a scam... you get so many 'robots' coming to your page.. and you chat.. and chat.. and that's it.. 25 bucks and hour.. maybe even 50 bucks and hour.. to chat with 'something' that does not give a *censored* about you.. lmao

I work for them.

I mean, I work for them indirectly. And Yes, you should stay away from this sites. iFlirt, MyDates, DateYou, iDates, mDates, moreDates, ..etc.

I don't really know where to start, but Yes, it's fake and you're not gonna be able to meet those woman personally, or go out with them for a date. That's not gonna happen.

First of all you are dealing with a lot of us, agents/chat moderators. If you think that you're chatting with an AI or an auto-reply mechanism, no you're not. You are actually chatting with a real person. That's what I do. I answer male member's chat. And it's actually more complicated than you realize. I don't wait for a certain members reply for hours, No. The moment I sent my reply to the member, another members' message will come in, that I need to reply to, it all depends on the number of members online at that particular moment. So it's possible that you as a member could sent a message, to.. let's say Maria, then I as Agent#1 would reply to that message. Then you sent a 2nd message again as a reply, that 2nd message may be sent to Agent#2 which is not me(Agent#1). Then Agent#2 will send a reply in which you as a member would reply again, that would be your 3rd message. and Agent#3 would come in and answer that. It doesn't end. As long as you have coins and keeps on replying, the conversation wouldn't end.

Just to make it into prospective. You as a member thought you are chatting with Maria, but in reality, you are talking to 5 people out there who substitute for Maria, every once and awhile, coz, for all we know, Maria doesn't exist.

It's also possible for a member to chat with Maria and Madonna, but all of his messages or maybe first few of his messages will fall into me. So I know that you're trying to chat with a lot of ladies in the site. But that explains why some woman in the site sounds the same. Or you might have received the exact message from the other ladies before. Copy-paste also works for us, just gotta change something like. Hi Carlo, How are you today? to.. Hi Tony! How are you today?

Another thing, we need to send a 70 character message all the time. You wouldn't get a short reply from the ladies like; Ok, Fine!

Why I keep doing this? I don't really know. I badly needed some money. I hope I can find suitable job out there.

I don't see myself doing this for a long time, but please do yourselves a favor, stay away from these site.

its such easy money they proliferate all over the world and no chance of doing jail time

thats beacuse theyre BOTs

Yes date you is a freaking scam!!!! The very first time I registered to be on there a girl named Isabell messaged me. The 2nd freaking day we were talking I told her that I can’t be here 24/7 so I thought about other FREE WAYS that we could talk but of course she was not interested in doing that... how can anybody not be interested in talking to someone else and they don’t have to pay to do it? I talked about meeting her in public but she always had some lame ass excuse!!! “I’m not ready for us to meet” if you can’t freaking reply cause you can’t buy any freaking coins you won’t stop getting messages and they’ll wonder why you’re ignoring them... ALL DATING SITES AND DATING APPS ARE A BUNCH OF SCAMS!!!! Guess what they all have in common? You have to pay money to talk to people!!!