I see that she has a new post listed. It used to list 16 posts under her photo and today I see she has posted somewhere again. And, no surprise, she still has not answered Kim.

I also see that that closed thread about the POF forums is over 16K views. Pretty soon there will be more hits since it was locked than when it was active.

~ J $ ~

So apparently she mentioned in this latest post that she was part Ukrainian; then she posted an article about how beautiful Ukrainian women are. No surprise there, either, given her history of disparaging other women's looks while praising her own.

It has been quite a while since I have been on this site. Let alone posted.

I see that BA has updated her profile pic but has not posted anything new. Not to mention that she still ignoring KJ's challenge. But that is no surprise. Right?

~ J $ ~

Boy was I surprised when I just went over to that thread about the POF forums closing (to see the number of hits) that it was open/unlocked for replies and comment.

Oh, and by the way, it is about 1,000 views short of hitting 20,000 views. Half of which have tallied since is was originally closed/locked.

~ J $ ~

Well now, would you look at that. Blondie has updated her photo again.

I opened this site this morning to see if there was anything new posted on that re-opened POF thread or this one.

I have my suspicions that Blondie is posting on the other one but as an anonymous poster. No proof, just a suspicion. I could be wrong though.

Then, when I opened this thread there it was, a new photo for Blondie!

She is obviously still logging in here. Just cannot help herself can she? She has changed her photo twice since her last posting. I am sure she isn’t posting, at least as BA, since she has refused to respond to KJs direct challenge.

~ j $ ~

Blondie, I see that you have updated your profile pic again!

I know that you are reading these posts since you are emailed whenever there is an update.

It is obvious that you are still using this forum but not posting? I say hogwash to that. You are posting but not as BA. You just cannot help yourself. Otherwise why do you keep updating your picture???

I really am waiting for you to address KJ’s challenge. You know, she may not be paying attention to this forum any more and you may be able to post your reply now without her challenging you with truth. You never know if you don’t try.

~ J $ ~

Hi Blondie!
I see yet another photo update! And this time it looks like you posted something somewhere under your BA profile. Just not here where there is that pesky little matter of confronting the truth hanging over your head.

~ J $ ~

Well, having just skimmed though the "closed" thread...I am gonna have to conclude that...No...we can not find the love we once shared! (Although, toward the end...I may have witnessed the beginning of a bromance?😉😉)


All of you might be surprised by why I started this thread and the reasoning behind my "confronting" Ms. BA. It was after I was notified by another poster that I was being discussed in that other thread. Some of the things written rather saddened me.

My intention was simply to give Ms. BA an opportunity to directly express her grievances with me. I have no desire to live "rent free" in anyone's head. It may come as surprise everyone and her that I wish her no ill will. I never considered myself better or less than her or any poster for that matter. I actually, thought Ms. BA was rather pretty and intelligent. But like most of us...expressed some ugly behavior at times.


I have only disliked one person from Pof and consciously choice not to look for the goodness which resides in all of us. When she expressed her views on the euthanasia of individual with disabilities, it negated any "goodness" I could possibly find.

I do have lines that once crossed can't be redrawn. I am human and have many fallibilities.

This is a very long winded post and no Hawking am I...so in conclusion I would, sincerely, like to thank all old Pof forum posters who read this, for making my time there enjoyable and quite the learning in life experiences!

Hope all of you are well and living your "happily ever after" best lives! 😘



Ps...I have but one request. Seeing as I have had private conversations/interactions with many of you... could please not use them as weapons against other posters you are having a disagreement with? It makes it very difficult to defend any misinterpreted conversations while trying to maintain and not betray the trust that each of you have given me with the privilege of getting to know you. By all means...attack me...but please don't use me to attack others. Thanks again.

Kim, so nice to hear from you.

Good to see someone else one putting cash bacon
and the 500 profile POF troll in their place.
I could not agree more.

Hoźe job, you are still trying to get myself and ATA in to a fight with you. Why? I don’t think ATA looks at this thread. He isn’t even posting to his thread about former POFers on the Frivolity site where the conversation there is mainly about you causing the closure of the POF Closed the Forums thread. ATA may not even be looking at this sight at all anymore.

I told you and have reasserted it in replies to other posters that I am not going to engage with you in some perverted flame war. I am done with you. I will only directly respond to you to remind you of this fact.


~ J $ ~