I am a woman and I'm very real... Went on the site to check it out, it was all for free for me, found a great guy on there, chatted and emailed some and yes met too. We now had a relationship 8 months! We are both also still married. We meet as often as possible, and we found exactly what we were looking for, plus more!

I had a good experience on AM. I am a woman and found a great man I've been having an affair with for 8 mos now... I didn't expect much and was pleasantly surprised! Also, I never paid a dime.

I spent over $700 on the Ashley Madison scam and all I got were several fake messages. I never met anyone. I am 27 and good looking. I went to Ashley Madison because the women in bars want relationships and I want women who just want sex. Oh well, I guess I'll have to go back to the bars and lie to women that I want a relationship so I can have sex with them (and then hurt them later).

If you are too judge-mental on the site, it probably explains why you were there in the first place. live free love free; free your mind and screen your calls whether its on A-M or any other site. let us not for get the internet was made for porn. In other words sites aren't cheep and every one has a hustle. Probably because in real life stuff isn't cheep and everyone has a hustle. Some paying bills other daring to live better than those who lack imagination and practical application. Quite honestly. It is probably easier to get laid on a routine runt to the filling station than it is to get a date on the net; however where's the challenge in that.I mean you only have a few women to choose from and there is always the possibility that your neighbor picked him or her up also. Now you have that uncomfortable silence amongst friends. Where as on the net you can date internationally instant global opportunity at the tips of your fingers. Without contracting STDs. If physical is your thing then physically get out and work yo thang. A great man once said it this way" find your inner pimp". I will simply say stop hating and start participating. Other wise as, another great man said "Have a coke and a smile and shut the ................ up.

95% sure it's a scam, at least for those in Australia... I suspect they have relatively few real members in Australia (if any), and as the sites founder notes, "it's normally about a 2 to 1 ratio of men to women"... On top of that, I've read elsewhere that most women who want to have an affair much prefer the man to also be married, as he is putting his own relationship at risk too- therefore more likely to be respectful of discretion than single guys... In summary, the odds of a single guy in Australia (which I am at the moment) meeting someone via this site are less than zero. (Maybe I should try misrepresenting myself as married to increase my chances?...) From what I've actually seen on the site after being a member for over 2 months- very suspect... I've received some winks/messages from women in the US and Canada (why would they bother and why would I waste credits replying?), and some "local" where I did reply (using my credits) only to hear nothing back! Also, the large majority of profiles I've seen have face pictures- hardly very discreet if you're legitimate, and have little or no information "in my own words", just the basic info selected from the checkboxes... I think the profiles are a combination of outright fakes created by the sites' staff, and copies of legit profiles from other countries/states just modified to suit my location- all designed to soak up your credits as soon as possible. Sure, there might be some real and local profiles in there, but it would be a very expensive process finding out which ones... All in all, the site is probably more legit in the US and Canada where they have a much larger population base when compared to Australia. As for me, don't fret, I've had far more success with REAL people on Adult Matchmaker .

I went on there in 2005 and met a woman within two weeks. We had an affair for about 9mos. Three months later I met another woman. I eventually left my rotting marriage and married the woman I met on AM a year later. Short version, it worked for me, but, that was a few years ago. Seems to be MUCH more $$ involved now than then. I never spent more than $50 on the whole thing. Hotel spending is a separate matter

THIS IS HOW TO IDENTIFY THESE FRAUDULENT PROFILES:

- they tend to be logged on for days at a time
- they will send you collect messages, even though you've communicated with them.
- they use similar face-blocking image edits.
- if they do reply, it's usually an invitation to 'cyber chat'

Divorce rates are so high because most women are emotional drones brainwashed by Walt Disney and Hollywood. They aren't in tune with who they really are and therefore arent able to be the slut they really are inside for their man....ergo...staying together cuz they are open with one another and aren't threatened their partners fantasies and desires.

The site is a total scam, unless you like fat and/or old women. Most of the attractive profiles are fakes. I received mail enticing me to reply which ofcourse costs money, but this person never even looked at my profile. Once I joined, the minimum $49 plan just to see, the communication from the attractive females stopped. I am 6 foot tall muscular attractive guy, so its not like Im ugly. The only ones looking at my profile is old, fat women or women looking for bi guy for their bi husbands, yuk. Keep your money and hit the massage parlor, the ending wil be much happier.

It's not a scam at all!

I'm a good looking 29 year old woman who has only been on for a week. Let's just say, I've met up with some off of the site. I have every intention of going with the relationships and seeing where they go.

It's easy to write something to a woman and just a matter of one word will put her off and that's it, you wont hear from her again.

You just have to give it a try and see where it goes for you.