Well... in an OCEAN of hugely negative experience, I notice a couple of testimonies that state that you CAN actually meet someone on SexSearchCom.
It's not entirely impossible that, although overflowing with fake messages of non-existing people who supposedly want to hook up with you - to make as many people pay for premium membership as possible, obviously - you MIGHT actually be able to MEET someone through that site.
I still notice that both the positive comments mentionned are anonymous (sure, like the majority of all posts on this forum, I know lol) - so they might as well have been sent by sexsearchcom partners, right?
I'll pass on sexsearchcom. In face of all the people who never made even ONE SINGLE CONTACT on there, it's not worth the money and time to discover if it's genuine or fake.
And there's *AdultFriendFinder*, which offers a lot for free (be it only the chatrooms) - so I'd rather give them my money to find out if the people listed as in my area actually exist or not.
Good luck to everyone... *sigh*