It’s fishy that so many women with positive fling experiences bothered to look for this discussion. Indeed more women are here to tell rosy stories about Fling.com -- than there seem to be real women on that site, lmao.
True, real women are more likely to find sex. However, most of the few real women I chat with on Fling.com also complain about the lack of good male candidates as well as the many disgusting messages they receive from weirdos and perverts. A few were harassed, threatened and molested by flings. Some new female members are surprised to find they are on a sex hook up site (since they had joined dating sites like MeetRealGuys.com, SeekBuddies.com or WebDate but then were connected to the horny men on Fling.com).
Fling.com is not completely fake. But most men -- including hot, smart, rich, patient guys -- will likely waste their time and money on this site. Men can probably get better success hitting on real woman in the real world, such as in a coffeshop, bar, workplace, park, museum, supermarket or bookstore. I did.
Fling.com publicizes itself as the “hottest place” to “hook up” to “find sex” and “get laid tonight”. It’s not impossible to find a real woman. However, most men are unlikely to find hot flings simply because the ratio seems to be about 6 to 10 men for every 1 woman. Since many female members are fake or dubious, the real ratio is worse.
So it’s a crapshoot to find the few real women, let alone have a sex fling with them. You have to navigate through the riff raff of poor women seeking to scam, use, freeload, exploit or deceive the men. Many of these women are not on the site for sex flings or relationships (though some do have sex). These include former escort agency pimps, escorts and hookers; needy women seeking bailouts for their sob stories and family/health problems (the smarter conwomen will initially refuse the offers of help they fished from you, then milk you with a sense of entitlement once they gain your trust); scammers who are either local pros or overseas scammers (pretending to be locals); identity thieves who want your photo and personal info; dubious online flirters and videochat girls paid by the website; dubious online flirters only chatting to get attention and compliments from guys; camgirls and sexsite girls; porn photographers; gold diggers; *censored*es; saleswomen; women with outdated/fake photos; networkers; and strippers. An 18-year old girl does her striptease porn show in the videochat rooms then later hooks up with some horny dogs” (her term for men who watched her) to get cash and material gifts from them.
These riff raff are confident in their ability to sucker naïve men who need to use the internet to find sex. Their game is similar: they tease and bait you with sex talk, then switch the agenda to what they want from you (e.g., cash, gifts, help, credit card number, identity info, your time). Men should stick to clear goals on they want from Fling.com’s women (e.g., find intimacy and sex, without wasting money/time). Be wary of dubious women who prey on your friendship or compassion to deviate from those goals. Some red flags are when they ask to be your friend, nitpick or make excuses to delay a sexual encounter, or insist on limiting the physical interaction. Cut and run if you feel bad vibes. They need you to give them the benefit of doubt and feel compassion for them.
Treat every woman on Fling.com with caution, until you are certain they are legit. Many scammers and time wasters are obvious during online chatting. But contrary to what some posters say, it’s not always easy to see thru the slick facades of some experienced women who are sophisticated at duping men looking for sex. Some have been playing their online chat games on Fling.com for years, so you can chat with them for months without realizing their intentions. It may take a few face-to-face interactions before you uncover them. About half of the women I met turned out to be hidden escorts and prostitutes (though some did not ask for money or it was an occasional job). It surprised me which ones were.
