It would seem that this site is just about getting you to join and then you will be lucky if you connect with anyone at all. I am sure there are a few women on AM who are really looking but for the most part it is a joke... I have sent out about 40 winks and messages and have gotten one reply... the others were "interested" until i joined then they became very scarce it is primarily a scam...

I'm a woman on the site and yes we are for real.....it just takes time to find the right match.....

dudes its not worth it, some may hook up but mostly bs. go out and meet someone in person much more cost effective. at least you will not waste your time writing some chick with head problems, in person you can tell the goofy ones. if you have any game what so ever you will not have belittle your self on some skank.

Ashley Madison is the worst site ever! I had an account there for some time now. I tried to upload a abstract picture to have as a profile pic. I guess some how they got so offended that they deleted my account. Still had them stupid credits left too. They didnt even give me the courtesy of an email, just hit the delete button! All over a innocent abstract picture. There such a horrible site, no customer satisfaction what so ever. All they care about is "give us your money" and who cares about the quality of the site. Fake profiles every where, yet they delete a REAL PERSON!? What gives?? Ashley Madison is a pipe dream, the site is set up so horribly you cant even give feed back to bad or fake members. So how are you to weed out hundreds of fake profiles? They dont care, just send your money and shut up, is the attitude you get from them. Funny thing is, im glad they deleted my account. Life is short, save your money!

Ashley Madison is a total scam!
I have been o that site for a couple years now. I've sent out over 200 queries, never to even get a "sorry no thanks" reply. Not 1.
I've been on other sites and some the ladies there at least have the courtesy to answer my query, even if it's to say "not interetsed".
I find it hard to believe the ladies of AM are ALL that rude, unless their all fakes.
Once my credits are gone, I have no intention of renewing, throwing good money after bad,
The ladies there are ALL bots, IMO.

I've been a non paying member (woman) on Ashley Madison for eight months now. I have met some awesome men on the site. The quality of men can't be beat. I have had an ongoing affair with an amazing man for many months. Not all women on the site are fakes or bots - trust me. I'm neither. I love the the site and highy recommend it.

Well, in just over two months on Ashley, I've chatted with a couple dozen men, met nine in person, and hooked up with six of them. I've heard there are 'fake' women, and even straight up prostitutes on there, but I know I'm for real! Don’t be a creepy perv right up front, and you may do better! Also, nobody will believe you if you lay out some line about long walks on the beach, etc.; we all know why we're on the site!

I am a woman who has been on AM.There are many more men than women on the site I got over 200 replies in 24 hours. But even for women some of the profiles are definitely fake and I know that for men there are heaps of fake profiles. If the woman has pictures that look like she comes from a porn site she's most likely fake.The most important thing is to be able to write well that is what attracts women on an internet site. Yes a reasonable picture helps. The other danger for men and women are the private investigators who peruse the site and post profiles to entrap the unsuspecting. My advise BEWARE you may get more than you bargained for.

I've had an account on AM for about a month now, as soon as I joined I received about a dozen winks, so I decided to join up so I could reply, but none of them ever reply back. And again as soon as I became a member I started to get a flurry of woman sending me winks again asking me to initiate contact, so I reply with a simple message to initiate contact and nothing in return.

I know the odds are tough on a site like this, but it's un-heard of to have 5 woman in 1 week sending you winks to initiate contact, you reply and then nothing in return.. And I noticed as well that some of the winks were coming in at very early hours of the morning, like 5-8 am which are strange times for a woman to be up and winking people on a cheating web site... My conclusion, there's probably a lot of real woman on there, but AM bulk the system up with fake robot profiles that periodically send you wink and collect messages to get you to start using up all your credits... My thoughts are if you don't strike a conversation of more than just 1 email with someone after buying the first 100 intro credits then give it up...

I am literally begging anyone reading this to NOT give your hard or even easy-earned money to Ashley Madison. I honestly believ 95% of the positive reviews were sent in by AM representatives. Now, AM is not a scam in the sense that you can’t get laid on that site. But it only improves your odds by about .00001%. And they have so many tricks and traps, you may find your initial $69 gone in about 24 hours and then what? You have to pay MORE. You are better off just looking on your own. ANd how ANYONE can write a positive review when they ADMIT that AM actually sends you FAKE emails from FAKE profiles to get you to pay is beyond me. If you live in a huge city there are probably many ways to meet married women–look for them, don’t waste your time and money with this site which is obviously run by people who seriously want to rip you off. And if you live in a sparsely populated area, the odds are so miniscule that an attractive memeber of the opposite sex is on this site, you’re just throwing your money away. AND DONT BE FOOLED BY THAT COLLECT EMAIL by the hot photo–yes she looks like the pretty girl next door and not a professional model but thats because AM knows how to rip you off. After you pay, she will NOT respond to your reply because she was never real to begin with. These people are con artists. STAY AWAY FROM ASHLEY MADISON!!!!! The sad part is, by the time North AMerica FINALLY realizes that is a scam, the criminals who run this site will be millionaires–dont help them out. Please.