Has anyone successfully had their CC company deny and reverse the charge? What wording do you have to use to get through? I think there are certainly valid women with profiles, but doesn't that clear sexsearch of fraud. If there are 10,000 spammers, hookers and commissioned reps (probably men posing as women) and 1 real woman that clears them from fraud. DUHHHH

Did it ever occur to you while you're getting hard and your ego inflated that you're getting it from a man? (Gays, Sorry for the obvious sex bias) How about some fat slob sitting as his computer rofl.
Actually, the emails are auto generated using SQL database queries.

Can someone hack into these sites and humiliate them please??

lol, ok i think its a scam for guys, but for actual women, which im sure is few and far in between is just as shitty though there is an offer of real men. I'm on it, in early 20's, female but mostly all just old men who i wont respond to, i have hooked up with a couple of guys my age in my area though.

joined sexsearch and got laid with a hot girl on halloween.

site also has a hot bikini girl on site 24/7 to help you join!

i think it's different for male members - i'm female and have met several men on sexsearch, but have heard from all of them that their responses from actual women were few and far between.

Sexsearch is a total scam!
Joined 11/2008 just took me 1 week to figure it out! When I first joined several women wrote to me--same ole' garbage, "tell me when you will be online so we could chat" "maybe we can hookup" ect. ect. I write them, and POOF! no replies. I guess my e-mail letters went off in space somewhere!
My opinion this site makes money on dreams and promises that never comes plus they hope you get hooked on all the porn so you buy into it. THE SAD THING IS ABOUT ALL OF THIS IS: IF SOMEONE DECIDED TO RUN A REAL SITE WITH REAL PEOPLE THEY WOULD AND COULD STILL MAKE A FORTUNE!!!!!!!

I experienced the same thing others here have mentioned, i.e., plenty of attractive women contacting me, but then never following up.

I signed up for a 3-day trial only, but then sexsearch billed me again for a 30-day charge, claiming I chose that option. I had no way to prove that I hadn't chosen it even though I was sure that I hadn't opted for another 30 days.

This site seems to be operated by shills who keep leading men on, likely to upgrade their membership and part with more money.

Some shills are rather insipid. I had a distinct and specific profile, and one asked me to tell her about myself. Others said they wanted to arrange to meet in person, but would never follow up.

It is my opinion that sexsearch is a scam. Stay away from them.

i don't know, i had an IM conversation with 6 different people in the last 2 days.

There was one chick that turned out to be real but it didn't pan out. I got one e-mail from some chick wanting a pic of my beef stick. She actually seemed legit. Pic wasn't of a super model. Thing is, I already had a couple in my profile. But I'm like, "whatever", I have no reason to be shy when it comes to that. So I send her the pic. She tells me I'm a really handsome and sexy guy with a big dick that she's drooling for. I ask her when she wants to meet up. No reply. I ask her for a pic or two, twice, and no reply. Funny, right?

So now I'm in a pickle. One chick, with a modelquality profile pic, e-mailed me saying this, exactly:

"Subject: Are you a player, or a player hater?

Message: Hi, before you decide to erase this message let me tell you a little bit about myself. I'm a really hot, horny, slut in dire need of a man who knows how to play the game right. I don't care about how you look, your age, profession, or even the size of your wallet, just the motion of your ocean. So, if you're kinky, hit me back! I'll be waiting."

Okay, so I reply,

"It depends on what game you want to play. But yeah, I'm feeling pretty kinky right now, not to mention horny. Message me back and we can set something up."

She says,

"Ok so how do you want to start this?"

I make a large reply about maybe meeting half way or driving all the way down there. 3 hour drive. Then I ask her what she's into when it comes to sex. What kinky things was she into. I get this in response:

"I'm ok with us meeting halfway."

Really? One line? I don't know how to respond. I mean, there are some real chicks on there. I know this for a fact. I talked to one on Yahoo and she was definitely legit. Didn't pan out because apparently, I'm not Brad Pitt. She flaked when I showed her a picture of me wearing glasses. Don't have them on at the site. I'm not exactly a skinny nerd either. I have a good build and I've been noted as "hot" by several real women. But yeah, thems the breaks. Unfortunately, I'm not sure if I'm going to end up with a hot woman, or some beast that goes by the name of Bubbalina.

One last thing, and this worries me quite a bit. I read up on some of the lawsuits on google. Apparently some guy by the name of John Doe, met up with one of the chicks online. Here's a snippet:

"An anonymous plaintiff, John Doe, sued SexSearch after he met a fellow user, Jane Roe, whose profile stated that she was born on June 15, 1987, which would have made her 18 at the time. Her profile also contained an authentic picture of her, and a statement that her ideal man was one with some staying power. Sounds great, right?"

Well he met up with her and he had sex with her. Apparently, he woke up the next day surrounded by cops. Turned out she was 14. They met up at their family home. He sued sexsearch but they got off scott free. He gets 10 years in prison. He was a moron for not verifying her age but there are many underage girls out there who look older, so I could see why he could be fooled. I know a 24 year old woman who looks 15. Now I have no desire to have sex with an under age girl. I may be lonely at the moment, but I'm not a sicko. 17 is questionable for me, but not prison-worthy questionable.

Now guess what it says in this chick's profile:

"Someone with staying power to keep me pleasured and is open to having fun an exploring new things"

Yeah. She mailed back 3 times so it's not just some one-shot scam, though they were short one-liners. Don't see why a common sexsearch faker would want to keep e-mailing me back. Any way I can help verify this chick without scaring her off?

Here's the link to the full page about the underage girl.

http://www.theregister.co.uk/2007/08/29/hoolkup_websites_legal_immunity/