I can only believe the words of those who have become paid members on this site about its scam status. I am a free member and I am not about to change that. I will just suggest that anyone really interested in hooking up should join a free and reasonably respectable site like okcupid.com. Take time out to write an interesting profile, add a picture or two of yourself and answer some personality questions. I can say from experience you will meet real and interesting people. I was out on a date today with someone I met there and it was great. I am a long time penpal with another, and quite a number of ladies have initiated conversations with me and offered their phone numbers...I even purposefully delay meeting others (don't want to spread myself too thin, even if it's only online chats, it still takes energy to keep up conversations). I might actually change my profile location to another city for a while so I can breathe and continue relating to the one(s) I already found. Anybody getting this? Do some work and see yourself rewarded!

How can we save others from being ripped off?

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Google reverse image search is a good tool to use. I started a free membership and got quite a convincing couple of replies from a younger girl who claimed to live in a named local UK spot and used a lot of flattery and a couple of terms from my profile. Reverse checking the images sent, which she claimed were of her, proved them to be of a US porn star. Definite scam by site owners.

Signed up as a standard member then received 2 e-mails off a super sexy girl from my home town preston in Engalnd. She also attached 2 nude pics which were very nice. A couple of days later she sent me another e-mail asking why i wasnt interested in her and attached a final nude pic to try and change my mind on meeting up. Anyway i started to become suspicious by the language she was using in her e-mails like ` vacation` and `cool`. Im sorry but in England we use holiday instead of vacation and very rarely say cool. I then put 2 and 2 together and thought bollocks what a scam. Glad i was smart and read between the lines. I didnt pay i got lucky that way.

geez this site is still around. Found it searching for free sites, first they say its totally free. Then they make you fill out the profile, after which you find out you can't do anything till you pay. I received an email right off the bat of a horny girl who sent me naked pictures of herself and a part of the message that said cellphone but no number to make it look like a legitimate member who had the number screened out. Then a few days passed and I got other emails from supposed members. I knew it was a scam when I got an email saying we had a lot in common based on our profiles. I filled out practically nothing in the profile. There was no place to cancel my account, so I edited my profile, wherein it says at the top it will be reviewed by an actual person, and instead of describing myself I addressed the person reviewing it and told to F*** off, said I wasn't going to pay jacked up prices to support their lame ass job, accused them of having fake matches, and said delete my account.

I am more worried of what they might do with the email addresses, passwords, and other info they collect from us. Especially since reading this thread and realizing how many dating sites are actually scams. The way things are today, I will only join sites that are free for men to join, there are some that are like this because women can get all the attention and action they want compared to men. Facebook is a scam too. It is a information collection tool used by the CIA. Many friends on facebook are actually bots and algorhythms. You should all watch the youtube video titled 55 delete facebook.

For almost 3 years I've checked on their pages regularly every six months or so. Hardly a dang thing changes. Same gals who remain the same age. No, I never gave them any money. I am super glad of that after all this time and see what an absolute fraud they are. They sit back and collect money from sucker for NOTHING in exchange.

I tried hornymatch.com. Its 100 percent rip off. I made account for free as u can on all adult sites within two dats i got 7 or 8 messages from so called local users by my zil code. All hot ladies but ya cant respond untill ur a paid member so i paid for 3 months.i messaged all them back and not a one responded .as a matter of fact i never got a response from any messages i sent.after thinking about it i desided to try something i made another account using another email add and same area by zip code and guess what? I got the same emails from the same so called users in my area! Its a total fake rip off site. My advice to all on any of the adult dating sites is to make 2 accounts using 2 email adds and just see if ya get messages from the same users. Ya can make all the yahoo email accounts ya want only takes few mins to keep from getting ripped off. Take it from me hornymatch.com is a total fake site only to steal from you!

I was stupid enough to part with my credit card details and found that all interest evaporated immediately.

If they are going to scam people, they could at least be more subtle!

The site has a warning about cancelling credit card transactions - however, as they are US based, the action they might be tempted to pursue might be limited against EU citizens.

Got ripped off like everyone else, usual story, and tried a fake identity, with the same automatic responses.

Wrote to tech support telling them that they were both a fraudulent dating site and (having read their T&Cs) a fraudulent entertainment site, because a load of fake emails that melt away once signed up is not very entertaining. Told them that they were therefore operating illegally in the UK. I have been promised a refund of the membership. Will check the credit card statement carefully to see if they honor it, but it's much easier to get a chargeback for a promised refund that doesn't materialise.