I have decided not to go with it "HM".. but a funny thing happened I went to a bachelor party and met a girl there that is on HM... that I thought was fake "BoT" Even with her being cute and real I still decided not to go with the site HM.

I guess for every person trying to help themselves, there will always be someone promising that help for a fee. I too have had the same thing happen. Many replies untill I contacted them via email and then the profile suddenly dissapears. Later, the same profile reappears. I have to admit, I was scammed. Very embarrasing, as I consider myself as one who is not easily taken in. Oh well, live and learn. Hope they get theirs. Karma is a powerful thing!

Bottom line, this site (like others) is all a scam. Many of the "members" are individuals working for the site and they get pissed at me when I catch them in the act. You can tell by reading their teasing messages. I had many that wanted to sound very interested.

I had two woman so far using their "brother's" member profile in order to send me a message that included their yahoo email. All they wanted was for me to exchange messages with them and then, BAM! They sent me a link to an online site that has a pay per use web cam. After I refuse to pay that is when their level of interest went from high to low.

Another way to tell if they are legit or not is by looking the quality of their picture. Does it look professional? Is it only one nice/gorgeous picture that they posted? Or do they have phone quality pictures and they all shoe the same person? Pay attention on these and you will see what I am talking about.


Here are some of the techniques I have encountered:

Technique #1: as soon as a standard member signs for the first time, that member receives many winks and or comments from "Gold" members. That stimulates the new member to send a payment in order to obtain a membership; therefore, allowing the member to reply the messages. Here is when the silence treatment begins.

Technique #2: Members within your "area" have excellent and intriguing profile and yet when the communication is started (from members like me), the level of interest or energy is not there from the person who posted the intriguing profile. Instead, there is a very vague conversation, no engagement on the topic, no momentum and or level of effort to meet outside these online means. The goal is to keep sending those kind of messages for weeks at a time.

Technique #3: You get messages from young ladies (22 - 28 years of age). Despite the fact that I have specific requirements in my profile, and age is one of them, I still get their invitations to "chat" and "get to know each other." Let me tell you, that is a load of *censored*. They want to elevate your level of interest. If you ever exchange messages with them, ask them in they read your profile and what part of your profile caught their attention. In my profile I have not chat, no games and etc...

People, save your money for legit services. Do not pay for this online service crap.

I got scammed into buying a hornymatches membership. I just wanted a free account, but they won't let you respond to emails with that free account. They sent out face responses from a very attractive female listed in my area.
After I signed up, no more emails. I set up another free account, to test if I could get her to respond again. She did, the same bait female, same wording in her email, same picture.

Hornymatches is a scam. DO NOT give them a cent.

My wife has an account on hornymatches . She opened it so we could find decent s*x partners for her (for when we are in the mood to share). She gets a great response from this site but only responds to a few select adds and it is only when she is in the mood to play. (not terribly often). So I have seen a pile of messages from guys all wanting to hook up and it can be overwhelming. Also this being a pick up site, it gets annoying receiving messages from guys thousands of kilometres away wanting to chat or ultimately exchange pictures & stuff. She is not looking for cybersex or pic exchange so any responses from say over 300 km away are definately ignored. There are also plenty of local ones, in fact so many that she doesn't want to make a full time job out of replying to people that she has no intention of hooking up with. So I believe this site really works but men are getting discouraged because the women are getting blanketed with responses and end up only replying to the odd few. Therefore some people will be thinking it is a hoax as they don't seem to get any genuine replies.
Now I'm not saying there's not something going on with them trying to lure men members to join, as you all know the woman join for free so they have to make their money from somebody (unfortunately it is going to be the horny men that want to screw these women) and Hornymatches knows that.
But just wanted to point out that my wife has hooked up with men from this site locally & while away on business, it does work but you have to catch people in the right mood. Especially married women don't have time to sit, chat and send messages back and forth for days to hook up. It might be once a month that she wants to play for a night, so it is then that she will go online and have a look at who is messaging her and if she likes what she sees then she will respond to meet for a drink that night. She is not like a guy and does not spend hours searching adds & profiles.
Be patient, there are lots of horny women out there (married or not), I believe it is mostly timing my friends.

Just my two bits worth, thanks

This is absolutely spam. I had exactly same experience. too bad I learned hard way. I suggest every one to stay away.

it is all just fun making - not real - it is all the sites which drain money - nothing specificccccccccccccs

Yes Hornymatches. com and the other site they refer you to Xdating.com are both 98% scam. I was a sucker and joined both for a bit of fun, emailed over 100 on both sites even ones who said they just wanted a chat and never a reply. The hot chicks who were interested in me before I paid evaporated once paid. Then I get an email saying for a couple of hundred dollars someone would help me with a profile that could not be resisted.
I found one live woman in another country that was online on one accasion hense the 98%. Then the usual of course a couple of great looking chicks hook up with me and then eventually either ask you for money or want you to go to some other porn site and join up.
I did get a bit of fun out of leading these chicks on but when I asked for a video proof that i was actually talking to a woman I got a prerecorded video from one.
Cheers

Same thing - Horney Matches - At my age time to stop thinking with dick. Got hooked, paid the fee and that was the last I heard from anyone. Never again Be Warned

Ive had a profile for a week now on HM. I got 2 replies. The first reply came from a average looking girl wanting to meet up then the next day she sent me a message saying something but gave me her personal email ( i sent her a email to her address and havent gotten a reply in 2 days). The next lady messaged me with some sentence and a picture of her clevage. Then 15 minutes later she sent another one with her naked neck down. But what has me convined and tempted is in her message she described a part of cincinnati oakley / hyde park area where she lives.. im sure its a scam. anyone else have a similar experience.