i've been on e-vow a couple of years now and as yet i've had no luck whatsoever, i'm not like all the other guys on there, i am totally genuine and honest, down to earth and reliable.

I have just tried to get back onto e-vow but it keeps going to POF which is the most useless, waste of space ever!!!!

why can't i get onto e-vow?

All these women talking about how they've met 7, 8, or 12 douchebags. It's hilarious. the reason 90% of men give up on online dating in the first three months is because they're lucky if they can get a single response from a woman. The 10% left behind are creeps and players, because they're used to being persitent. Less than 1% of the guys who stick around are legit. And all this is because women choose to ignore the decent folk in lieu of scumbags. The problem with online dating isn't men, it's women.

The fact is men send out message after message hoping someone actually responds. Women just sit on their ass and choose which messages to respond to. So every bad date was your choice. Women also expect all sorts of effort out of a guy's opening message, even though they rarely respond. Yet the best message any woman any woman ever sends in return is "hi."

The fact is most women are phenominally lazy. They're too lazy to put out any of the effort and they're too lazy to take responsibilty for their own bad choices.

Sadly I have to agree about pof. I haven't tried evow but now I know not to.

I agree about both pof and evow [I tended to wait for people to message me because I know I'm not this gorgeous girl with a big rack and I'm not looking for some perfect dude] but I also agree that it is BOTH men and women. I know both genders want to pretend they're the sweet little victims who are getting messed with but its BOTH genders faults, not just one.

I mean what does that say about you and the kind of person you may or may not be if all the people you're interested in are idiots? Again, I'm talking about both genders. Guys were just rotten there though, I'll admit but the women were no prizes either so I can see why guys are complaining too. I think I met one decent guy and he actually was decent, he wasn't looking for some perfect girl, he just wanted a girl who matched his life style and he was talking about how most of the women were looking for this perfectly fit men with great income who would spend money on them and big houses and and I admit, I was skeptical of his claims so I took a look and I was like 'wow he's right, some of these women's demands are outrageous. They want absolutely perfect and they're completely oblivious to how they come off as'. So I went off and looked at my profile and saw I came off as someone who wanted kids quick and that's not what I intended so I deleted that part, I eventually deleted the profile anyway but still.

On the flip side, I met a lot of men who were just scum looking for a quick lay too and urging to hook up so. So YES, it is BOTH genders. NONE of us are victims. We're all at fault here and completely oblivious to it. If it helps you sleep better on night to play victim, by all means, do so but everyone is at fault and it's time to stop being in denial or oblivious to it.

ok first i surley dont want to hear the womans mouth on here saying its both sexes problem BULLCHIT!!! i been on POF or as i call it no P.O.S a cpl times. my profile is always the same nothing vulger or sexual in my profile i simply state i dont want using lyin cheats well I BEEN BOOTED FOR THAT!!!!! ALSO i had woman message ME vulgarity cuz they didnt like my CLEAN honest profile swear me ouyt F bombs and all, and without responding to them i report them and BOOOOM I GET BOOTED!!!! woman say ANYTHING THEY WANT if they dont like a guy YOUR HISTORY PAL!!!! i HAVE PROOF THEY DESCRIMINATE AGAINST MEN!!!! try this experiment yourself takes 2 profiles both sexes. take the female profile look at the male profile curse out the male profile etc then take the male profile report the message and profile and you WILL BE DELETED WHAT A BUNCH OF DOUCHE BAGS!!!!! all them hos on there wilol die ALONE . and thats ONLY HALF the problem with that crap site, see let me tell you other men another little F'up, if you pay to upgrade...... and sum stuk up wench reports you.... YOU DO NOT GET A REFUND AND THAT TAKES BALLS FOR THAT CRAP COMPANY TO DO THAT soooo i found a site here where its a CLASS ACTION SUIT against POF you go to it fill out the little bit of form 60 seconds (no cost) the total built to date is ASTRANOMICAL!!!!! 10 DIGITS FELLAS thats the scam they GOT GOIN ON and lastly IF I EVR SEE "MARKUS" IM GOING TO PUNCH HIM IN THE THROAT!!! lol

Hey, I met my husband on evow. Great guy! He is normal and not a weirdo like a lot of guys all over the internet. Be careful and watch your back. Trust no one until you get to know them. I chatted with several guys on Match.com and POF that were nothing but scam artists. Have patience and be careful! Good luck to you.

evow is a bs site. you got old broads that wont put out anymore and all they want is an expensive meal and to drink 10 cocktails as fast as they can and beat feet back to their house to slam the door in your face. if you get in a xxx chat with one before you meet them, evow will close the mans account.....screw them all. most of the pretty girls are psychos that were humped by dozens of men and still want to take a guy for all his money and piss on them in the end. POF is worse.

Evow have blokes that are messing about and just want to do endless chit chat. The men on Evow are more interested in for filling there egos than wanting to date . There are a couple of blokes that have two profiles one with picture and one without . Not one bloke on that serious site are serious about making a date . There are a lot of old blokes on there that should never had been divorced and stayed with there wives because they have absolutely no chance of a women wanting them for a date . It's a sad site seems to be like all the rest that are mentioned just blokes hoping to have a quick sexual encounter and then move on to the next one they have been chatting to. To be truthful if you seen some of those blokes in a pub and they come up to you I think you would run a mile lol

I recently begin communcating with a man on evow. Lots of chemistry have not met yet. What I don't understand is how he has communicated all these feelings but continues to go online daily? What's with that?

I have had profiles on both POF and EVow and POF to me was full of freaks and scams. But I can't say anything bad about evow because I'm now engaged to someone who messaged me. I knew from the second I saw him he was the one. So thank you EVow for giving me someone that is real and true and loves me!