Well, of course I didn't bother to read any of these comments and got burned...the responding "woman" in question lived some 20 miles away, was plausibly married(but really emotionally disconnected from her husband), not a "20 something", and even came from a town which had adresses listed (I checked Intellius--more money spent!) under her name--the only obvious discrepancy was her age--she caimed to be 34, but the Intellius report turned up a woman in her early 40's (I'm 52)--all of which was quite plausible too(she might lie about her age, ya know?). We had a long series of message exchanges-some 30 or so for a month-I still think it was a woman "at the other end"(the style and focus was undeniably female). We even set up a liason, after which she would come to my house for two days of sexy, kinky fun--she was quite detailed, even writing a scenario for me to "finish". Then three days before--POOF===she was gone, profile removed, membership terminated.Correspondence vanished....No way to contact her, short of writing to the named person("Jenna"

at the address. I'd been screwed (without actually getting...)