forget collarspace or collarme. they are same as ... they never care people or bdsm society. if you try to be member you have to wait at least 8 months to can be approved. hundreds new members waiting and sending for feedback any answer why they are not approved sitll since 2018!!! but nobody care or give any reason to you.. collarspace dosent feel or care any respect , responsbility for their familiy.. i m regret i tried may be 20 comments to forums supports adress. but there s notting you can find any email also... its like trap tehy took your informations but they never open or visible your profile in the site... fetlife is good you can be member at the same day and can connect to people get hundreds friends in 2 days... but collarspace never visit forgot this fake liars... it should be forget collarspace cos they makes you angry and regret after 8 months...


So collarspace links to no good reports on that one.
And fetlife is broken... can't get past verification.....

Master Seth

Fetlife is working fine, I am on it daily, do a lot of work on my groups there. What is your problem with it???


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I use KinkD for a while. He was created for BDSM people. It's only me that used it, we did it both with my partner - we search for a third person to join us. Better said we searched, because we found her already. She is a cashier in a local store, saw her a couple of times but would have never thought that she was part of our community if not finding her in that app. Now we have regular threesome sex, without needing to find another girl.


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Try, large dating site, and, the latter will give you information about local events as well , amongst other things.

Be careful, a lot of ignorant people and some scammers on Collar Space. Stay safe.

Fetlife is more like facebook for kinksters, with a lot of bells and whistles. it is not specifically a dating site, but no one objects if you contact people that look interesting.

IMO both sites are free and safe for signup.

Some advice : first of all, no *censored* picture for your profile picture. you may laugh, but many guys still do that.

second, if you contact someone that looks like you someone might want to talk to don't be an ass about it. be polite, and friendly, like you would be if you were to meet someone at a party. Don't just go "hey i want this and that, and you are sub, so you have to give it to me. " that will get you blocked. THese are not just kinksters, they are PEOPLE .

Good luck.

Mistymouse ( my nym on either site)

First collarspace was great once upon a time but the people running it are useless and absent. I changed a few things in my profile like my age and some updated changes in my life and situation. And 3 months later still waiting for an approval and cant message or do anything really. Its absurdly poorly managed. Fet life's biggest flaw for me is no way to search for local people for those of us actually seeking something real if they added a local search by state gender (orientations) option it would become the perfect site. But for me personally without that its useles for my needs

Mistress Mabel

Hello everyone here, Thanks for accepting me. I'm Mistress Terri by name, 25 years old, I'm looking for a good, honest, truthful, obedient and understanding slave to own and collar 24/7 in the Bdsm lifestyle again.

Master Seth of Tucson

Fetlife does have one pair very long standing for years, of good classified ads, which have REQUIRED to show CITY, STATE, COUNTRY, in ad headers, so scanning ads in those two groups is very easy.

Classified! female sub Types Seeking Male Dom Types
Classified! Male Dom Types Seeking female sub Types

These two groups, however, are ONLY designed for dom males to meet sub females,, and are especially set up to ELIMINATE sub males trying to connect with females, and attempt to get them to dom those sub-males.

Most sub females do NOT WANT males trying to sub to them, and DO NOT WANT *censored* PICTURES,,, so males attempting that are immediately banned from posting ads or EVEN JOINING those two Classified Groups.

So, if your male profile does not show you are Dom, Top, Master, or Daddy, you will NOT be allowed to join those groups, or, reply to ads in those two groups. YOU WILL be banned without any notice ! ! !


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Hello everyone here, Thanks for accepting me. I'm Mistress Terri by name, 25 years old, I'm looking for a good, honest, truthful, obedient and understanding slave to own and collar 24/7 in the Bdsm lifestyle again.

and you are real ???? another scam